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long distance Boyfriend is depressed and often suicidal
Posted Thursday September 9 2021, 8:11 pm
My long distance boyfriend of 2 years is often losing himself. He has numerous mental disorders, and struggles with them daily. He often provokes fights when he drinks and generally has a lot of anger that builds up. This weekend, he is going to a party and so am i, he wants to get smashed and talked about this one asshole he wants to beat up, he also said he might kill him. Knowing him, he will, he wont hesitate if he wants to. But i also wanted to drink and im not sure if i should or stay home incase something happens to him.
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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
Posted Wednesday September 8 2021, 2:52 pm
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a...
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What to do about a toxic(I think) friend?
Posted Tuesday September 7 2021, 9:21 pm
Some background information:
I've known my best friend for 8 or so years and we were perfect friends until 2 or so years ago, when she first started talking to this dude on tiktok.
Don't get me wrong, I encourage her to have her own feelings and I love that she wanted to get out and talk to guys. But she started acting... Weird after.
We were the type to talk bad about people for a quick laugh, but didn't actually mean it. We'd never say it to their faces or spread rumors. So it wouldn't have been unusual for us to talk bad about the guy she's talking to... Except she thought it was. She'd get defensive about it. I understand wanting to protect him, but seriously. It's all jokes, she knows it.
Well fast forwar...
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Friend cancelled plans. Again.
Posted Monday September 6 2021, 4:30 pm
My friend "Jane" (34F) and I (24M) have been friends for about 5 years now. We tell each other almost everything and can always complain to each other or ask the other for advice. It's pretty much great, but the one thing about it that I absolutely cannot stand is the fact that she very frequently cancels on plans last minute. She has a slew of physical and mental health problems, so I know that she's not cancelling for the sake of just not wanting to do anything. However, it's gotten to a point where whenever I try to make plans, I have to constantly verify with her that she is, in fact, following through. The instance that made me write this post was that today, we were expecting to play Pathfinder with a group of friends. I am ...
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Friend broke my heart
Posted Monday September 6 2021, 9:01 am
Hi
This is about my last question. Basically a “friend” from high school told me she is going to study abroad. We haven’t seen each other in a year. She then invited me over to her place but basically we sat there in quiet, she didnt even offered me anything, it was me who brought something for us to eat. Then after 2 hours she indirectly told me to leave.
I then told her we should meet during summer before she leaves. She agreed but basically whenever I would ask her she would tell me she is busy and working. Dont tell me
that even if she is working that she couldnt find 2 hours for me to say goodbye.
You know what, she just posted a picture with classmate from high school (she wasnt clos...
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Why do I find this a red flag?
Posted Saturday September 4 2021, 7:20 am
28/f 32/m
I was reflecting over my last relationship and I can’t help but keep thinking that this is a red flag—
When I first met my ex, he told me that he was moving to Texas because he was building a house. Eventually it had been revealed that his MOM was building a house in Texas and he was moving into the house (but his parents are planning on staying in California).
Later on, I found out that the condo he was living (and later sold) in California was also owned by his parents. Which by the way, this was a condo that him and his ex-fiancé lived in. When it was sold, he moved back in with his parents but he lived in a separate area in the house so he could have his own privacy.
I ...
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My husband said to "Mind my own business?"
Posted Friday September 3 2021, 8:47 am
My husband has been having an issue with going to work here lately. At first I wasn’t saying anything. But now I’m getting worried about our future. I have been now saying things about missing work and yes I have fussed about it. All he says to me is to mind my own business. I told him that we love together and that him not going to work is mind business because it affects me as well. Am I in the wrong?
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How do i give myself a bruise with no makeup
Posted Wednesday September 1 2021, 8:17 pm
How do i give my self a bruise no makeup and quickly no makeup and also i wanna know how to cut my eyebrow and leave a scar in the most painless way i wanna know pls answer 🙏🙂
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About my mental ability and my life
Posted Tuesday August 31 2021, 12:58 am
Hello advisor,
Hope you're doing good, I am 21 and in recent days my life is like hell, nobody want to understand me. When I started talking about my problems to friends and family they don't response about it. I am a shy guy. last few months my friend's relationship was going to be finished but I handled it and saved it but that friend is now ignoring me and he always faults me and he never give me priority. I just want advice what should i do for my self-improvement?
Thanks
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roomate caught masturbating in my room
Posted Monday August 30 2021, 3:03 pm
Thank god for anonimity. I have a sex doll and yesterday my roomate begged me to go get him beer. Since I didn't want him drinking and driving I decided to be nice and go get it for him. I have a camera in my room and I checked it and while I was gone, he came into my room and screwed around with my dool and jerked off to it. I didn't see anything on her, but maybe he was wearing a condom, cause you can hear on the video that he got off. I came home and he was all chatty and friendly and thankful for getting his beer. Talking to me like nothing.
I want to make him pay for the doll its pretty much new and now he's defiled it. I don't even wanna touch it, let alone screw it. He ruined it for me and I want to make him buy it of...
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my boyfriend and I are insecure and its destroying our relationship
Posted Monday August 30 2021, 2:09 am
No long intro, Im 22 (female) and he is 18.
We both met/got to know each other in february. I met him online and we have pretty much the same friend group. We were always kinda attracted to each other and on 29th of june he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.
We couldnt meet up in august, which made me overthink a lot. I knew he had A LOT of work. He would basically work all day because he got 3 jobs at the same time. The only time he had was on sundays but he needs some time for himself as well, so I respected that. We still played games together, or watches tv shows.
Yesterday we had this conversation about how he is scared that I will lose interest and leave him. Im in love with him and would in alm...
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my last friend or is she really my friend?
Posted Sunday August 29 2021, 4:33 pm
Hi,
so over the last 3 years I´ve lost almost all of my friends bc they were toxic and the friendships drained me and were one-sided. I held onto them for so long and tried to save them but I just couldnt anymore bc I knew these "friends" didnt really care about me. They were mostly friends from high school but i after i left high school i learned they werent really my friends bc of how they treated me.
I kind of have only one friend left but I dont know what to think about her and I dont know really if she is my friend or im just trying to hold onto one last person before i can officialy say im a loser and letting loneliness take over me.
She is good person, she helps me and listens to me whe...
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What about your friends? Or lack thereof
Posted Saturday August 28 2021, 4:51 pm
How can I befriend someone who doesn’t know there worth and would rather be around phony people?
I have no idea where to start with this so I’ll just start from where it all went up in flames…the pandemic. I was in ninth grade when we first got quarantined and i had or was building a bond with someone who I felt was worthy enough to become the closest with but then a new school year started and I went completely online, the only times we saw each other was at testing(the only days where I was required to show up to school in person)and at that point I had no way of reaching out to her and cherishing what was left of what was being built before the interruption. So when I started my junior year 2 weeks ago I was excited to come ...
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Extreme Nervousness
Posted Saturday August 28 2021, 1:43 am
Hello Everyone I am a teenager and I am 17,and from India Some months ago I went into this online relationship with a man, seriously a man whose age is 23, now I met him through some game where we could actually talk and I could talk in front of 3 guys including him I was very confident and in his eyes also I impressed him but now I have lost that all after the day i got into relationship with him. He proposed me and he is very attractive and matured I just said yes in flow but yeah I did like him but never thought of going too far and I never knew that what was going to happen after. It seems like I was not quiet ready for the relationship maybe. I used to get scared and nervous later on, on his texts and when he used to call me. I never u...
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Toxic friend(s)
Posted Friday August 27 2021, 6:26 pm
Hi :) My name is Jane and I’m 22.
I dont even know where to begin. I start my 1st year of my Masters degree in a few weeks. I got rid of my one toxic friend from high school about 2 years ago. I tried to be friends with but I just couldnt continue.
And this one “friend” is also from high school. I gave her another chance bc before that I told her I dont wanna be friends with her. She always tells me how are we gonna travel during the summer but we never do. When we would hang out, it would always be only 2 hours…always. And it was always exhausting bc no matter what we talked about, she alway had to outdo me and be better than me.
I study translation and i told her that I got translating part-ti...
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Argued with close friend over his mistreatment to me and found out he has a
Posted Friday August 27 2021, 10:50 am
Does that mean all the suffering I've faced is now invalid because he has adhd?Are my feelings now just not justified because of his adhd?What can I do to help him?By the way he doesnt know that I know of his adhd.
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Flirting or just friendliness?
Posted Wednesday August 25 2021, 9:23 pm
I can't tell if this guy I like is flirting, or being friendly, or if he was just tired at the time. The reason why I think he's flirting is because he said things like "My are you a lovely yet deadly little rose," and "Awh that's adorable" and gave me those suggestive emoji-things.
He has flirted with me before, and it has looked like this every time. Yet he has also told me that he's weird and "annoying" when he's tired. This seems to be the actions he takes when exhausted. (And it was early for him at the time.) Is he just like this though?
I'm stuck, because I automatically reciprocate, and I don't know if I should. I have no idea what to do in this situation, especially when ...
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Should I show my viganal part to my boyfriend in the phone
Posted Sunday August 22 2021, 9:44 pm
I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please.
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How do I deal with an emotionally abusive mom?
Posted Saturday August 14 2021, 7:46 pm
Both my brother and I just fought with my mother today and yesterday, and literally right now as I'm typing this, she got into her car and stormed off after fighting with my dad. I know because my dad stormed into our rooms and started blaming us for fighting with her and making her mad. I don't really care how I come across by saying this; I honestly don't give a crap that she got mad and stormed off. She's always been very quick to anger, and is verbally and emotionally abusive to both me and my brother, although less so towards my brother. She calls us things like psychotic, needing to go to the hospital, mentally ill, says there's something wrong with us, things like that. Yesterday, we got into a disagreement. We were talking about som...
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How do I politely tell my friend to not be so clingy?
Posted Friday August 13 2021, 4:30 pm
My friend is super insecure about everything and super clingy. She texts constantly and it's not that I don't like hearing from her, but she just makes me SO emotionally exhausted because every conversation we have ends up with her making self-deprecating jokes or her needing constant reassurance that I'm still her friend. Of course I'm willing to reassure her about these things, but having to do it all the time is just really exhausting. I have my own problems and I can't be putting all my time and energy into making her feel better. I know that if I tell her this though, she'll get super hurt and insecure, and it will probably backfire and I'll have to spend even more energy convincing her that just because I think she's being a little cl...
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