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he seemed perfect in every way and then I found out he broke every promise


Posted Monday August 22 2016, 10:24 am

This is long, and can't be fully understood until read to the end. But I desperately need help. I would appreciate it so much.

I am torn , confused, and shattered. I can't function.
To start.. I broke up with my boyfriend recently. He is from Germany and I am from America. We met on Omegle about a year ago. We were friends for several months before we fell in love, and we very close until we became best friends. We also have skyped numerous times.

He used to seem perfect, and like the perfect match for me. And he seemed soooo similar to me in ways that are hard to find. And this was extremely rare as I am way different than most people. He overflowed me with love and was always there for me. He a...

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Can I move out 5 months before 18 Bday?


Posted Sunday August 21 2016, 6:09 pm

I am going to be 18 in january. I need to know if I can leave. I have somewhere to go, I have a job and will be a manager when I am 18. What will happen if I leave? If I'm not in danger and I have somewhere to go, will I be forced home? My mothers trying to quit my job. I live in Connecticut if helps.

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Posted Sunday August 21 2016, 12:35 pm

How can I insert in back hole of my gf

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Caregiver for disabled


Posted Sunday August 21 2016, 5:58 am

Okay, so after watching the fundamentals of caring, (a movie about a boy with muscular dystrophy who is wheelchair bound, and a caregiver to watch over him who also takes him to the world's lamest attractions around different states) I was genuinely curious if a caregiver would work with me as well. I, thankfully, am not wheelchair bound, but I do suffer from hypermobility syndrome, also known as Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (type 3).

I deal with daily dislocations, and I was wondering if I could potentially hire someone to help me out on days that are particularly not easy on my 16 y/o body.

(No, I am not asking for someone to take me across the country)

Does anyone know if this could be possible?

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How can I be less sensitive?


Posted Sunday August 21 2016, 1:07 am

I cry all the time, and it's really embarrassing when I'm around other people. For example, if I get even a slightly bad grade on a test (like 85%), then I'll barely be able to hold back tears. The same thing happens when someone makes any sort of negative comment toward me. Is there something I can do about this? I don't think I'm really 'insecure' or anything, I'm just really emotional and I don't know why. Any advice..?

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My boyfriend smokes weed! What should I do?


Posted Saturday August 20 2016, 11:13 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. He's basically the most perfect human being to me. He's smart, he's handsome, he's sweet, and he treats me like royalty! He says all of the right things to me and he makes me feel good. I couldn't ask for anything better. The only issue is...HE SMOKES WEED OCCSSIONALLY! I am one who has morals- I am a virgin, I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't party, etc. I'm not trying to be judgmental, but I don't know how to handle it! It really bothers me and I don't know what to do. Any advice?

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Older FWB says i don't have to use condoms


Posted Saturday August 20 2016, 9:24 am

I am 24 and work with a hot, hot, hot 41 year old woman. We started a friend with bennies relationship about 5 months ago. We have sex once a week to every other week. She was 2 kids that are in high school. Went we have sex it's mostly at her apartment when her kids are at work or staying the night at their friends house. We have mostly use condoms but their has been one or two times that she says its the safe time of the months and if I can pull out we don't have to use them. A few encounters ago we did not have any condoms so she said to me " that's ok, we can go with out them". I asked he if it was a safe time and she replied " no". I asked her if we would be safe still if I pulled out. She said that I did not have...

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ADHD, sensory proccessing Disorder, Autism , and Anxiety Disorder


Posted Friday August 19 2016, 6:42 pm

I am a 27 year old female And when I was 12 my pediatrician diagnosed me with ADHD and I have been taking Adderal ever since. As I have gotten older I noticed that I started having problems with social anxiety. When I was little I have never really enjoyed playing with the other children. I would forget my materials that I needed for school every day on purpose so I would get detention and be made to read instead but what they didn't know was that I enjoyed it. I hated going outside with all the noise and drama. I despised pep rallies so mom would check me out that. I hated fire drills and smoke alarms and trains. I went to my psychologist and they said that I was misdiagnosed and I don't have ADHD I haves Sensory processing disorder I look...

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Did the judge have the right to dismiss my restraining order against my ex?


Posted Friday August 19 2016, 1:42 pm

Two days ago I had a hearing to make a temporary restraining order I had put against my ex permanent.

My ex had stalked me, always showing up up wherever I was and paid somebody to see if I was at my workplace. He called the police and made a fake report to find out if I was at home. He even broke into my apartment and I woke up to him standing over my bed furious.

He threatened to rape and kill me which I had in text messages.

He would chase me if I tried to get away from him and block my way.

He would harass me calling me every minute of the day for hours on end (I have call records of this) and leave me crazy voicemails.

He told me multiple times if I left him ...

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Cheating?


Posted Friday August 19 2016, 12:34 am

Went through our phone records and there were 100 text messages all hours of the day til late at night between my husband and his female coworker. I confronted him and at first he said he had no idea who it was. I googled the number and knew who it was. I asked if I could see the messages
and he deleted them. Even the ones he got today.
I told him that looks bad..she's just a friend he says. They just talk about work stuff. He is usually sweet to me and as I tried to make my point he called me an effing B. He has never said anything like that to me in 13 years. I feel catatonic with shock..please give me advice.

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Wearing a pentagram in public?


Posted Thursday August 18 2016, 9:27 pm

I am 13 year old female and a Wiccan. I have a pentagram choker I recently bought and am considering to start wearing it. I'm going on vacation to the beach in a couple days, so I won't be wearing it that often because of the ocean and the such, however tomorrow I'm getting my nails painted. My mother has no problem with Wicca or me wearing it, however my family is mostly Christian. Most my town's areas are Jewish majority and Christians and Muslims tie in second however there is a fair amount of atheists. I'm not trying to generalize, but based off my experience atheists are chill and don't care at all, Muslims are definetly the most "anti-other faiths" however I've met completely chill ones and those who keep it to themselves, h...

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Angry boyfriend blocks me


Posted Wednesday August 17 2016, 11:36 pm

How can I ask my angry boyfriend to unblock me? Whenever he is upset or angry because of me what he blocks me. I know by this time I should get use to it but it hurts. 🙁

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I need advice :P


Posted Wednesday August 17 2016, 9:59 pm

Hai...I'm 9 and I just got my period...Yes I got it early T^T Any advice?

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Getting Along With School Organization Peers


Posted Wednesday August 17 2016, 4:45 am

Last year, I joined the biggest school organization (for magazines, tabloids, portfolios) as a member of the Literary Department. I love writing poems and I am interested. This year, they promoted me to be the Literary Editor, a role that I could never take. I am not that skilled in writing compared to other members and I compare our works sometimes and I feel very inferior. I do know that there are no other members who could be chosen as the Lit Ed because they're not responsible enough to handle the tasks or they quit the club. I was a student of the honors class so they chose me. I pleaded to the moderator to choose another one because I can't handle the role. That is why the moderator chose the one up for it, the one who quit at first. ...

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My kid only eats one thing?


Posted Wednesday August 17 2016, 3:58 am

My 11 y/o daughter used to eat many different types of foods, vegetables, fruit, meat, etc... even if she didn't care for a particular vegetable, she'd still manage to eat it anyways.

Since about three weeks ago, she's only wanted to eat one thing for breakfast, lunch, and dinner: Two scrambled eggs and one maple sausage. Sometimes she'll have orange juice/ a breakfast essential drink to go with it.

I've tried arguing, offering special meals, but she only wants to stick with eggs and sausage. I'm worried she might eventually lack the nutrients she needs.

Is this just a phase?

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Close friend is a girl; started avoiding me


Posted Wednesday August 17 2016, 2:02 am

I have a problem with a serious office crush in the office. I was smitten by her since she has this bubbly and friendly personality that you can ever asked for. She always smile to most people she see in the office and she is the talkative type of person. Sad to say she already has a boyfriend in which I am aware of.

Basically, we often meet in the hallways of the office or in our respective departments doing our business; a simple "Hi" and "Hello" everytime we meet would suffice and I've always thought that my feelings for her would grow. At first, I told myself that I will never be friends to an awesome girl like her. And usually I would already feel satisfied even if I just see a glimpse of her.
...

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what did i do wrong?


Posted Tuesday August 16 2016, 1:48 am

I dont understand if ive done anything wrong to my friends, so im gonna name my friends Sara,Jade and Anna. Right from day one whenever i texted Sara she would always try so hard to end the convo everytime it would start she would be like "anyways i gtg bye" so ive gotten used to her cause i feel like she doesnt really wanna talk to me, but now that high school is over and we are going to different schools we have to try and make an effort on keeping the friendship but Sara i know purposely ignores my messages on whatsapp because whatsapp tells you when the last time someone was on, everytime i message Sara on there id have to spam her for her to reply to my message. She watches my snapchat stories but to this day i messaged her l...

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Who is right? Me or my dad?


Posted Sunday August 14 2016, 5:28 pm

I am 16 and I have had my license for about two months now. However, I have not been able to once drive myself around somewhere because I don't have a car. There are cars available, but my parents don't allow me to drive them because I'm not registered to them or something? It has to do with insurance, I'm not sure with the specifics. Anyway, there is a BMW in the garage that is supposed to go to me, but it doesn't pass smog bc there is a part that needs to be replaced. However, this part costs like $2700 and my dad doesn't have the money to just pay all of that up front. Along with that, all of the tires need to be replaced, and a lot of other things. With that really expensive part, not every mechanic can fix it, but my dad heard about th...

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Swollen lumps in vaginal area


Posted Saturday August 13 2016, 6:25 pm

Sometimes I can be agressive when I masturbate and will also end up masturbating every night for a week or two. I've noticed that after several nights of this, I have one or two swollen "bubbles" or "lumps" under the tissue beside my clitoris and on the inside side of my inner labia almost directly beneath my clitoris. This has always happened on the right side (from my perspective.) I've tried looking it up but can't seem to find anything even remotely similar. They're sore, round, and under the tissue. They are not on the skin and not an infection. They go away after a few days to a week of inactivity. Can someone please tell me what they are? I'm not so much concerned as I am curious. Thank you!

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lying


Posted Saturday August 13 2016, 1:16 pm

hi, my name is kate and i have a "friend" we've been bestfriends for 5 years, she's always made me laugh and smile but also cry, mostly...she's been ugly since her childhood but i didn't care, now she's kinda pretty and she says she has a great body, but in reality she has a belly, no hourglass figurr and a hip dip, i'm not saying that this type of form is bad, she just says things that aren't true, somehow, she has been liked by a lot of guys, they were saying perverted things about her, and know she has a boyfriend who is from another country and is a singer(john robert rimel) and his real name is different in georgian ( i live in georgia the country) she also describes her life as a comedy-romantic-teenage movie and it seems so...

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