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My grandma was tricked by my aunt into signing power of attorney form.
Posted Saturday February 11 2017, 6:55 pm
My grandma recently had a stroke and she's very confused and speaking baby like. My aunt went up to the hospital with some forms for her to sign so she could get power of attorney. My grandma has two kids left which is my mom and my aunt. My aunt is not responsible, she steals money from my grandma, does drugs and she's been writing checks using my grandmas name while she's in the hospital. My mom is way more responsible and I have a cousin that has also been looking out for my grandmother. My aunt just wants to be in control of everything so she can spend grandmothers money and live somewhere nice. When my grandma gets out of the hospital, my aunt is forcing her to live in her house which is not suitable to live in. Can my mom and cousin take my aunt to court?
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My mom and I are always fighting over my car, I wish I never got it?
Posted Thursday January 26 2017, 1:30 pm
Long story short two years ago my mom took me into a car dealership to get a car so I could go to work and drive myself to college. Well I was young and stupid (I think I had just turned 18) and she let me pick a car that costs me $321 a month in financing fees + $110 in insurance fees. Well now it's four years down the road and I'm always struggling over how to pay it as I'm a full time college student who lives way from home.
I have a job, but it doesn't pay that much and they're always delaying sending me my paycheck (I'll think they're going to cut it one week and they don't do it until the next week and then I have to wait another week to get the paycheck). Obviously this a problem of it's own, but I can't really get an...
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help: if I want to improve my financial condition so what is the way
Posted Thursday January 19 2017, 12:29 am
Ok if I want to improve my financial condition so what is the way ?I want to established myself.and I m absolutely feeling alone so how I established myself?
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help.i want to die immediately.
Posted Wednesday January 18 2017, 11:29 am
Hi,
I am jharna.i want to die immediately. Because I want a child but my husband have already two children from his first wife,and that children don't want my child.my husband also support there decision.so my life is meaningless that's why I am feeling absolutely very alone and I can't live without my child so I want to die immediately..plz somebody help me and suggest me what I will do ?
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Am I unreliable and selfish?
Posted Friday January 13 2017, 3:00 am
My dad has his own youtube channel where he sings. He wants my brother and I to sing on his youtube channel too. My brother doesnt like singing and neither do I. It's not our thing and it's something really far out of our comfort zone. He's been saying that this is important to him and he would rather us sing it than a person he'd pay money to for singing the song. He is saying that we aren't willing to do anything for him when he needs it, but when we need something he'll do it for us. We would do other things for him just not this! Does this mean we're selfish and unreliable?
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MARRIED WOMAN HITTING ON ME AND IM A FEMALE ALSO
Posted Friday January 6 2017, 10:25 am
there's this chic at a place I frequent...she is a married woman with 5 kids...and she flirts with me CONSTANTLY everytime she sees me....and she loves to pick on me...im flattered she finds me attractive (shes not the first woman/married woman to hit on me....but im strictly dicly) but she got folks thinkin we fukkin or messin around in someway and we arent...oh hell no...ive told her more than once that I don't fukk with females nor married folks, that shyt is nasty and degrading.....she'll be like u know you want this.....i told her she is pathetic and to stop multiple times.....till this day she refuses to take the hint....ive told her boss but that was a joke....how should I go about this...just leave it alone since no one on top has a...
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I made a huge mistake
Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 3:13 am
Hi.. 18/F
I made a huge mistake. Please don't judge me. My cousin(also 18) and I have never been really close until a while ago when we started to hang out. After a while I started developing feeling for him but I didn't tell him because maybe it was just us getting close that I'm not used to. A few nights back we started making sexual jokes and the convention fot a bit heated but then he stopped it. I thought it was a joke. Last night it got a bit sexual again and I asked him if this was a joke and he said no. So we ended up sending each other photos. Afterwards we felt really guilty. I know it was a mistake but how do I stop feeling guilty, help him stop feeling guilty and restore our relationship? Please help me?
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Is there anything wrong with introverts?
Posted Sunday January 1 2017, 7:42 pm
So today since it's the New Year it's a tradition for my dad to do a New Years prayer so while he was praying he was praying that there shouldn't be any introverts in my family anymore. He was saying that directly at me since I'm an introvert, I got pretty pissed and told him that was rude and uncalled for then left. Is there anything wrong with introverts? I can't change my personality if he doesn't like it oh f**king well. Just because I'm an introvert doesn't mean I don't talk to people. I'm generally a shy person but since I stared university I had to get out of my comfort zone nobody was gonna come up to me and try to be friends I had to do it myself. So I don't understand why my dad said that as if being an introvert is a bad thing?
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How can I tell my mom I don't want to stay with her any longer?
Posted Sunday January 1 2017, 7:20 pm
Hello, I'm currently visiting my mom over winter break (from college) and originally I told her I would stay until the 8th, but I just can't stand being here anymore and I want to go back home to my place on campus. I know she's going to be hurt but I hate being here.
I'm just really tired of being around her and I need time alone. She's constantly in my business and trying to control everything I do. She won't let me buy anything without asking where I got the money to buy it and getting angry with me. She's constantly asking if I paid my bills (which I did already or they aren't due yet). She's overfeeding my cat and giving him too much attention so now he cries when he's left alone and I'm afraid now when I take him back ...
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Got in a little fight with my parents
Posted Monday December 26 2016, 4:23 am
This issue happened over the weekends. My sister and I are back in town for the holidays. We haven't been to our family's local church in a while. The night before, we all got our church clothes ready and my mom asked me to fix my hair so I won't spend all morning on it that would cause my sister and I to run late. I'd asked my sister for help with fixing my hair but she decided to go last minute shopping. So I ended up doing it myself using certain hair products that ends up leaving residues in my hair the next morning. Long story short next morning, my parents asked me to change into another outfit at the last minute before they left the house (left no room to argue about alternatives), my sister notice the residues in my hair and spent h...
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Regretting big family move
Posted Saturday December 3 2016, 10:21 pm
At the end of last school year my family moved 8 hours away from our old home into a bigger city. Me and my husband have 5 kids 15 13 12 10 and 4. We needed better jobs and a bigger house. Now I'm having some regrets though. My middle/high schoolers hate their school (the middle and high school are combined) and my 10 year old is being bullied. The jobs that looked so much better are demanding and we are never home all together anymore. We cannot afford daycare so I work nights and my husband works days. My older kids also babysit. Everyone is miserable and we can't afford to move back what do I do.my
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How to avoid getting into trouble
Posted Saturday December 3 2016, 9:10 pm
I was watching YouTube on safari and it was in incognito mode, which I thought doesn't show any of my history but I watched a video on YouTube (sorry if this is too much information but it was something called a jerk off challenge, and when I went back to normal mode to look at my.history,the video was there) . Which is weird since I wasn't signed in on incognito mode unless I accidentally pressed on the video in the normal mode, but my YouTube account uses my moms email address and is also logged in on her phone, i have now cleared the video from my history in regular mode but not private mode, but I'm not sure if it would clear in private mode since I'm not signed in on it, but I'm not sure if my mom would be able to see that i had watche...
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Fight with my mother
Posted Monday November 28 2016, 1:47 pm
So i am the youngest of two older siblings. Both of my siblings are in their 40's moved out so my parents are in their 60's and they are pretty old school. Im 24 and still live at home. I have a full time job and have been working and trying to enjoy my time. About a year ago i was in a really deep place and tried to commit suicide so i have been in therapy since then. I am in a way better place now. I drink on the weekends with friends and try to have a social life. Yesterday i was on the computer and my mother came in the room and tried to vent to me about my father because he is an alcoholic so my mom hates drinking. I sometimes feel guility for going out with my friends drinking because of how much my mother hates it but im 24! thats wh...
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My parents are upsetting me
Posted Saturday November 19 2016, 7:03 pm
I'm almost 14 and I feel upset sometimes because of my parents. I mean, I get that parents lecture and that's their job to educate their child, but my parents take that too far. So on one odd morning I was going to be late so I forgot to make my bed, so they lectured me the whole morning and yelled at me, not even because of me being unorganised, but stuff like I'll be a beggar and no man would want me and very off topic subjects. And they think everything I do is stupid, like the way I tie my hair, or wash the dishes. They complain that I don't do my homework but they always call me down to do the dishes or sweep the floor when I'm home. They always compare me to my cousins and friends, like 'why don't you start being like her? ' they lect...
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Crazy mom
Posted Thursday November 10 2016, 11:36 pm
Well I was laying down on the catch and just searching for something watch. My mom walks in and asked, how was your day?
Me: it was good
Mom: was your day fun ?
Me: umm yeah I think so
Mom: what did your friends and you do today?
Me: just same old same old. Like talking
Mom: do you have an attitude today?
Me: I don't why ?
Mom: cause it seems like you don't wanna be bother
Me: I answered your questions and I didn't say it with an attitude. I just answered your question and there wasn't anything to add.
( mom says nothing and gets a drink and goes to her room)
So I'm a girl and even I don't act this crazy. She's always been a weirdo but I don't understand why I was treated like the bad guy.
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My Mother's Addiction
Posted Sunday November 6 2016, 7:38 pm
Hello,
I refer to advicenators every now and then because I think you guys have great advice on pretty much everything.
So my mom, I do not really know if ANYBODY in the world would do such thing, but she goes around the neighborhood and begs, yes BEGS people and cries for borrowing money she can't pay back, so she can go and spend it on buying clothes and lots of shoes. She now has 4 huge closets full of clothings... It's too sad seeing my dad drink every single night for 20 damn years ... (he's become an alcoholic) and might just leave her and us all and say screw this I'm out. Because my father has achieved so much in his life to give me and my sister the best and Believe me when I say this the BEST life possible. A...
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How to get my mom to say yes?
Posted Tuesday November 1 2016, 8:06 pm
So I'm going into the woods with a couple friends, my mom has been letting me go there for about 2 years now. I lost my glasses about a month ago there, and now she won't let me go. I've already tried telling her I'd leave my glasses at home, but she still says no. I've decided to just go wirhout telling her, I'm going to do that if I can't convince her. So, if none of your answers work, that's what I'm doing. So, any ideas on how to convince her to let me go?
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Is it Possible that she sees some of my father in me?
Posted Tuesday November 1 2016, 1:56 am
Sometimes I am on eggshells with my relationship with my stepdad(family relationship). Sometimes we get into arguements to the point were we actually yell at each other and sometimes my mother has to call it off. But my question is, when I was young, my mother and biological father didn't have the best of relationships either, so I ask is it possible that she sees some of my father in me and should I talk to her about it?
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I need advice about my relationship with my grandmother
Posted Sunday October 30 2016, 4:11 am
My relationship with my grandmother is very bad. She is not a good lady. I try to talk to her nicely but she taunts me everytime. She makes fun of people. She does comparisons among her children and she humiliates my mother in front of other people. I am now afraid of her taunts. I want to teach her right things but being younger I can't do that . I want to know how to handle her. She is very selfish also. She always gossips about others with her daughter .
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Tension in the House
Posted Sunday October 16 2016, 2:28 pm
Hello, I'm 22 and female and I've been with my 23 year old boyfriend for about a year and a half. This is going to be long, about my boyfriend and family but if you can stick around until the end to help me out, I'd really appreciate it.
Like I said, my boyfriend and I are almost together for a year and a half. Things are really good between us but up until recently, my mom has not been for us. It took about six to eight months before he started spending the night at my house (we both still live with our parents). But after my parents gave the okay, he started staying over. We would alternate between my house and his but it would mostly be my house because he just doesn't like being home and he is a manager at a walmart so so...
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