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Confused / Conflicted w/Feelings for a Guy.
Posted Saturday February 13 2016, 11:17 pm
Is it too late to talk to my crush? I'm 17, and we're both juniors. Let's just call him M.T. We are both shy (him being more painfully shy than me). At school in the music room is where we see each other most often. It is obvious the way he looks at me each time I enter the room that he is interested in me. I liked him a lot in the beginning, but then my infatuation with him died down a bit. This was due to him being too timid to talk to me. My parents encourage me to be the old fashioned girl and let him talk to me first. This situation has been going on for two or three months. Am wondering if he's worth my time and how to go about this.
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I think he likes me cause he always looks at me and smiles
Posted Saturday February 13 2016, 7:07 pm
there is this guy lets call him Rudy well when I was in English class ( well I sit next to him) our teacher gave us a mini quiz and so while doing it he hit me with a rubber band but on my thigh and every time he playfully teases me and he kicks me and I do too but he is always making me laugh and always saying nasty things and I think he likes me cause he always looks at me and smiles at me he teases me a lot he touches me playfully a lot and he always listens to me I need help do u think he likes me ...................................................................................... please answer no sooner than later I need help now does he like me or not
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if a boy asks you out
Posted Wednesday February 10 2016, 11:02 am
How to react if a boy asks you out and you don't know them
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How can I deal with people not liking me for no real reason?
Posted Tuesday February 9 2016, 12:41 pm
People really love to gossip about me and I keep hearing that they don't like me.
The thing is that I've never been mean to anyone, I am not cocky, I always try to be as polite as possible etc.
Most of these people have never talked to me outside school, they don't even talk to me IN school. Yet they pretend like they know I am a horrible person without knowing me at all.
This makes me really sad and I doubt myself as a person. It also leads to me not liking myself very much. Furthermore, it just makes me feel very angry.
I have one more year left, how can I deal with this and not care about what they think of me? How can I like myself as a person?
The reason this bothers me so much is because they have n...
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Mah Friends are kinda annoying.....
Posted Monday February 8 2016, 12:13 pm
I'm a 7th grade girl who is constantly annoyed by her friends. They're REALLY weird and can hurt my feelings a lot of the time. I thought they would be really great friends when I moved here but now they just get on my nerves. In my old house I had soooo many good friends and now I'm starting to get more but I can't get away from my annoying friends without them making a huge scene!
What should I do???
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do i like him or does he like me?
Posted Thursday February 4 2016, 9:32 pm
Well it all started when we were in PE class I was sitting on a stack of chairs and there was another stack that was empty and by the stack was this boy lets call him Michael well To not fall we have to hold on the middle stack so I was about to fall and I put my hand there to get balance and I did it again but this time my hand met someone else and I noticed it was Michael so I saw him turn red and I did also but I burned up a little I just muttered sorry to him and like when that happened his gaze and mine were held for 30 seconds but I was the first one to look away and it happened again just that our eyes met only for 10 seconds I told my guy friend and he told me that if I was burning up when Michael's and my gaze met than that means t...
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Nervousness After Getting Sick
Posted Thursday February 4 2016, 11:46 am
I'm 21, female and my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for almost a year and are sexually active. He always uses a condom and I'm on birth control.
Saturday was the most recent time we had sex and I had a feeling of needing to pee the entire next day after - this has happened to me about three other times since he and I had began having sex but it always went away the next day (two days after being together) but this time it didn't go away. It got to be so irritating to me that I finally broke down and went to my doctor. I had been told that I had a urinary tract infection which I had assumed and I was prescribed a week long antibiotic. She told me that since my bladder was irritated other times before, that I may be an u...
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How do u treat a boy
Posted Monday February 1 2016, 8:54 pm
I need help why is a boy shy to be around with a girl
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I can't tell if my crush likes me or not!
Posted Thursday January 28 2016, 6:28 pm
So this guy in my grade, who I told myself I would not get a crush on because he's gorgeous and popular, is always staring at me and last term we talked all the time but now we don't talk because he's only in one of my classes and we don't sit by each other. We both catch each other staring and quickly turn our heads the opposite way but I'm not sure if he likes me.
Should i leave a note in his locker asking anonymously who he likes???
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hiding my odd body issue from my co-workers
Posted Thursday January 28 2016, 5:08 am
I have an issue which I have never revealed to my friends at work, mostly because I have gotten rather self conscious about it. Basically I have an abnormally fast metabolism which causes me to eat an abnormal amount. I was born with this. People talked about it all the time I was growing up. In high school and college I was a serious athlete which definitely added to my appetite. It could be embarrassing and even my understanding friends who didn't mind me cleaning out their fridge would constantly remark on my appetite, tell me I was SO lucky, and generally make me feel like a freak when I felt like a snack at odd times. I have seen several doctors about this and had many tests with no results. I am not fat. I am 5'10" and about 150 ...
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First Dance
Posted Wednesday January 27 2016, 6:40 pm
So, Throughout my entire life I have been a pretty quiet boy, sticking to myself and my close friends and that is about it. I enjoy playing video games and sports with a group of close friends, and outside of that my other social expiriences are pretty limited, especially when it pertains to a female. However, at my High School (I'm a junior, 17) there is a Sadie Hawkins dance, ( a sadie hawkins is a less formal dance, where the girl is supposed to ask the guy). Now, if this were like prom, you wouldn't see me near the school and it would not cross my mind once to ask anyone, but since its vice versa now I'm fair game. And what I thought might happeened, a girl asked me. And I can't say no to that, so I said yes. But the problem lies in t...
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First School Dance Advice
Posted Tuesday January 26 2016, 8:02 pm
So, throughout my entire life, I have been a pretty quiet and reserved boy, who says very little at school and just really plays video games and sports with close friends. Right now, I am a junior in high school. So, dance haven't really been an issue for me as I will never ask anyone and since i'm the boy, won't usually get asked. But the problem is now, my school is have a Sadie Hawkins dance, (a sadie hawkins dance is when the girl asks the boy instead of vice versa) so I'm fair game to ask. What i feared happened, and today at lunch a girl asked me to go. Some people may like this, but i am not one of those people. I couldn't say no so now i am going. The problem here is that a. I don't know how to act as I have never been, b. i can't ...
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Shouted at by boss on unpaid work placement
Posted Tuesday January 26 2016, 6:37 pm
I've been on placement a few days a week with a small company as part of my uni course for 4 months.
Normally the people there are nice however yesterday I got snapped at for essentially being slow and that I needed a greater sense of urgency.
I am offering my services for free and the way I was spoken to by the boss made me upset and feel undermined. What's more i never get a thank you for the work that I do only chased on days I'm not meant to be in to finish off bits of work.
I feel unappreciated- is it acceptable to treat a work experience in this way? I know I'm there to learn but I'm certainly not there to be insulted!
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Asked for my number at work
Posted Monday January 18 2016, 4:22 am
Right 3 days ago at my last day at work I was asked for my cellphone number and we had been (from what I can take from it) flirting. I said yes and wrote it down for him. But he has not texted? Is he not interested? Or am I overreacting? By the way I am 16 and a girl, the only reason I could think he wouldn't contact me is because of my age ( he is older but not by too much). What do you think?
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I'm having really bad friend situations
Posted Saturday January 16 2016, 12:20 pm
Would you give me advice on how to deal with a certain problem thats going on with my friends?
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introvert in a class with no friends
Posted Friday January 15 2016, 8:52 pm
In my second semester, starting in about 2 weeks, I have one class, Gr 12 Physics, in which I have no friends. I'm not exaggerating, even a little bit.
I am an introvert with limited social circles, and I hate talking to people I don't know very well. I have 4 girls I hang out with ALL the time. They are my BFFs. I also have about 10 other people that I am comfortable talking to(this includes about 8 girls and 2 guys). Also, I am kind of known as a nerd at my school, so other than the 14 people listed above, there are only a select few, very outgoing and friendly, people who ever talk to me, and I will never initiate conversation with them. I feel particularly awkward in any social situation involving guys.
Any...
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Thoughts on dropping out
Posted Tuesday January 12 2016, 11:49 am
I've been unable to handle the pressures of high school this year. I'm a senior, and a very slow one, if you know what I mean. I'm failing some major classes due to a strong lack of interest and my finals are during this week. In my chemistry class I've learned almost nothing. I don't remember any of what I really did learn, and it's not just because of my lack of interest. I've recently noticed that reading has become increasingly difficult for me to do on my own. I cannot stay on task and I end up skipping sentences or misread things. Even when I ask for help I still can't understand what's going on. I'm also having issues in dealing with my peers. They proudly lack interest in anything that doesn't involve quite a bit of inappropriate to...
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Identity and self esteem
Posted Saturday January 9 2016, 12:21 am
14/f
I'm usuallyA good kidI do my homework I aced my test and I do what I'm told. I've been recently hating who I am though. I hate how I'm a good kid and how I sometimes do crazy things with my best friend. I hate how i feel fat and annoying. I tried not eating, and when I barely lasted 6 hours I just started exceeding more. I feel like some poeple think I'm weird or a try hard or a teachers pet. I hate how the boy I like sees me only as a friend - and it's not the dating I'm after, it's the fact that someone likes me. Ive been obsessing over how so and so wouldn't have done the stupid thing I just did or so and so would've said a funny remark instead of nodding their head. And I keep hearing how you should be someone you admire. I ...
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Stressed out with work
Posted Wednesday January 6 2016, 10:30 pm
Hi I am a 24/f I have had a really hard time with keeping a job, and about two months ago I got a job as an appointment setter, where my job is to call local government agencies such as city halls and county offices to see if where they'd be at with their website. I work for a company where we do websites for cities and counties. I call people but it's really frustrating. I constantly get rude people that hang up on me and yell at me over the phone. I try not to take it personal, but it's annoying because since I've started I have only gotten like maybe 5 presentations. We set up presentations and then someone else shows them what we have to offer. The girl that sits next to me has gotten like 30 or more at least. I'm so sick of it. She ac...
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speaking up
Posted Tuesday January 5 2016, 10:03 pm
One of my New Year's Resolutions this year is to speak up more. I have a tendency to just sit quietly and listen to everything going on around me, even if I have something I would like to say.
I do this whether I'm hanging out with my friends, in class, or in small group at Youth Group. I know that in class I'm a little scared to speak up, I am afraid of being judged, its kind of a social anxiety thing, but with my friends and at Youth Group I feel totally safe talking, I just don't say anything.
I want to come up with some ways to prompt myself or give myself courage to just say what I want to say, or to raise my hand in class. I talked to my Youth Group leader about it, and he said that he will make a point ...
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