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i have many talents ... (if i do say so myself!) but there is one that i dont show very much that i really would like to. its theater. i personnaly think i am a pretty good actress, but i dont know where i can get involved other than school plays and i took 1 drama camp, because i have a really busy schedule, but i really wish i had more time to do theater things..... what should i do??? how do i let my light shine?? (link)
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Well, you could start by being in one of your school shows (if you haven't already) to make sure you know what you're getting yourself into. I'm in theatre and it can get pretty crazy! If you're dedicated and I have no doubt you are it will be soo much fun & you'll love it. There's also community plays which you can do. Also there are some places where they give private lessons and they might also do productions. You can always look in the musical, some places will advertise their auditions in hope to get some young fresh talent!! You said you're busy, you could try telling your parents your desire to try out for plays and do theatre. Maybe you can come up with a way to clear your schedule a bit. I hope this helps and you have fun in theatre :]
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I'm a junior now. I've gone through at least one guy/relationship each year. One really hurt me.
I'm in a new relationship now. This guy is amazing, so sweet and funny. We are really open with each other and it's so different from my other relationships. I can't believe it lasted to 5 months. It's almost 6 months now and it's scaring me. I don't know how to get rid of this.. feeling..fear. I'm so scared that it's going to hurt really badly if this ends.. because I feel as though I'm too attached already. And since this relationship is without any abuse of some sort [verbal] it's the best I have ever had. I'm just worrying over things and trying to prepare myself. But I'm tired of doing this. One of my past relationships lasted over a year but I was still "with" the guy for another year or so, just not official, if you know what I mean. :/ 8th grade to the middle of 10th grade. And he hurt me so bad throughout the years and I'm afraid it's going to hurt worse in this relationship.
I don't know why I'm suddenly having this fear. I've dated 7 people and he's the first guy to actually treat me right.. and listen to me. He's patient and kind, he's actually willing to watch disney/chick flicks with me .. he doesn't make fun of me. He tries to make me smile and laugh.. and he tries to see me as much as he can.
It just seems too good. We haven't had any fights either. I'm not one to fight and in my opinion, I don't think it's healthy. For my relationships I guess. Others? Sure.. My friends always push the idea on me that fighting is a must in a relationship. They try to make me feel like our relationship is somewhat flawed.. and it makes me think that they are jealous sometimes.. because they always pick fights with their boyfriends.
How do I get rid of these worries? (link)
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You said that you two are very open with eachother. Maybe you could try talking to him about it, when the time is right. If he really is a sweet, funny, and just all around great guy he'll understand your concern. If he really does like you (which I'm sure he does) he'll probably reassure you that he wouldn't do that to you. If you guys did eventually break up he'd probably try to hurt you as little as possible. I know that's somewhat impossible but he can try. I think you've found yourself a good guy & you should just try to talk to him. I hope this helps :]
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