Member Since: September 20, 2006
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Last Update: September 20, 2006
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14/f
ill just flat out say it. i cheated on my boyfriend. but here's the situation:
my boyfriend of 3 months and i are not allowed to see eachother at the moment. lets call him ian. he is 17 and i am 14. my mother doesnt approve, so we cant see eachother. before this mess started happening, we were having sex. dont prejudge us. back then we were both completely in love with eachother. now all we do is argue yet we're still together.
well i am in high school and he graduated last year. i met this one guy who i really liked. lets call him mike. mike and i kinda got caught up in the moment last night and had sex together.
right now i feel so bad about cheating on ian cuz i know he'll never forgive me. and i truely do love him. when we're together, its the best feeling in the world.
but my problem is, what should i do? i dont want to break up with ian and i dont want to tell him but i feel so bad. please dont call me a slut or a whore. please give me actual advice, i need it. (link)
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Now, I know that nobody can tell you how you feel about a person but I do know that if you TRULY were in love with someone, you could never cheat on that person or do anything to hurt them. What you have for Ian is lust. I've been through it, we all have. I don't think you're a slut, everyone has sex.. It's normal. If you want to be with Ian, you need to be honest. What's a relationship without honesty? Talk to him face to face. You don't want to lose someone so wonderful.
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