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My name is Karen, I'm 16. I like to help people the best I can, though I may not be very good at it. I've been through more than most people I know, I just don't share it with everyone. So chances are, if you ask me something I'll probably be able to relate in some way and will be able to give you the best advice I'm capable of giving. I enjoy writing poetry, listening to music, hanging out with friends, the normal teenage stuff. So, ask me whatever you want, and I'll give you the best advice I can give. =)

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my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say?

If you like him, go for it.. but make sure he will still be your best friend if something should come in the way of your relationship.

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I cut. But not like most people. My arms aren't coverd nor my legs. I have scars on my thighs, ankles and wrist. I've recently taken to cuttin my shoulder. my parents know and found them. They know check every so often for blood or anything. they took all my pointy objects away but i still have a knife. they wont let me get cousling or anything because they think its bad for teens to go on meds. i cant go to my schoo counsler because-well if you knew him you wouldnt. Anyways, there are peole with bigger problems then me that need the help. my life is perfect. I have horses. i ride. i get w/e i want. Im spoiled. my parents r nice n everything unlike my friends who r abused/assulted. yet i always feel so depressed. like i cant pull myself out. i constantly cry and hide most of my feeling until i can hide to cut. i dont partically like people knowing but people find out n i dont like being known as a cutter. i get straight a's n im the good kid. least u use to be. now im this depressed, mean, cutter lil freshmen. this isnt who i wanna be. help. oh right..14 female.

Cutting isn't good, but it's a way to turn emotional pain into physical, and it makes it easier to deal. I used to cut, and still have the thoughts of doing so, but try not to. Just becaues you have the so called "perfect" life doesn't mean you're going to be happy. There are a lot of things that could cause you to be depressed.. and you should probably get some help. But, if your parents won't let you, then that could be a problem. Try to do something else other than cutting, try writing poetry or anything of the sort. [I probably suck at this advice stuff, but try something other than cutting.. and TALK about stuff to someone! find someone you can talk to about anything..]

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