Member Since: November 30, 2010
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Last Update: December 1, 2010
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I don't understand why is it that bad having a good relationship with your tutors at University. Curently, I am 25 and i am in the second year of my studies (second degree) and all my tutors are cool but, one of them is brilliant and i undersdant him better than the others, I respect and admire him because he has this passionate way of teaching, he is taff sometimes but very helpful. One thing that is wierd is that he looks like my dad whom i lost when i was young,he reminds me of him a lot, sometimes with his movements, i was shocked in the first year but i am used to him now. I am a direct person and I am so proud he is my tutor that spontanously i told him that, this university is worth it just because we have a brilliant tutor like him that motivates us do more reaserch for his module and actually made me like what i am studying, and i also told him that he reminds me my dad a lot. but it was spontaneus and without thinking, with no harm.( But i think i was wrong telling him that) He is the opposite sex. I do admire him but i don't have a crush on him, honestly, but sometimes i have the feeling that he thinks i have feelings for him, because he tries to avoid me, e.g. We have an essay and i emailed him like usually saying 'Sir I would like you to explain me a bit more the question and advice me what books to use, so when can i come and see you in ur office" and he emailed me trying to explain the question and said if you need more help you can email me back again, and because an email is not enough when i saw him next day after the seminar i said: Sir, can i see you for a moment and he said email me later, which was wierd because he was not like that before. I dont really like this situation and i really don't have a crush on him, i just want him to be like before, normal and friendly. How can I fix this? How can i make him understand that i am just impressed with him and i respect him and also admire him for the way he teaches us,and his wide knowledge, but not other feelings involeved? but really i wish he was my dad.. (link)
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He may not be weirded out because he thinks you're into him, he may be weirded out that you compared him to your dad. As for what to do, try being completely professional for awhile, not even friendly just to show him that you aren't interested.
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