I'm just a girl with a past filled experinces some from providence,some from HELL! I would justlike to impart whatever "wisdom" I may have accumulated in my journey and maybe make someone smile.MY Mission Statement{written by me}
DENY YOUR FATE
EMBRACE YOUR DESTINY
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E-mail: unkajed13@aol.com
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Age: 46
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[note: this will be long]
I'm 19/f he's 20/m.
I've been with my boyfriend for what will be 3 years in August and I love him very much. But sometimes I can't help but think things like what if another girl comes along that appeals to him and will take him away from me?
My boyfriend always reassures me that he will never cheat, and I believe him for the most part, it's just that I can't help thinking these morbid thoughts. He's a people person who gets along with everybody. But as you know some girls mistake being nice with flirting...and I'm afraid that his social skills might get him into trouble someday.
We don't live as close to each other and don't get the opportunity to see each other as often as we'd both like. He lives a half hour away and we only see each other on the weekends. I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what, but I've never thought such things before...why all of a sudden now?
Some say I'm just overreacting but sometimes I don't know what to think. I am a good girlfriend who's stuck by him through everything and supported him through his ambitions; I don't restrict him and let him go out with his guy friends; I'm moderately attractive; the sex is good...so odds of leaving me are very slim unless there is another part of a guy's standards that I'm not fulfilling? Even so, what can I do to banish these thoughts? And can someone tell me WHY am I even thinking such thoughts when I should have no reason to...?
Thanks!
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These questions may be coming frm your own past behavior. My question "Why pick a peoplw person if you are not?' My suggesstion is to consult a qualified MSW Therapist. I am a people person and we all know they come in two genders. Just because he talks to "people" does NOT mean he wants them sexually. If your relationship is goodenough to ask thie question it should be "good enough" to seek professional help. I did and it no only gave me peace of mind, I found out just what "didn't work" with and about me
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