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k so my ex and i went out for 10 months. we separated for four months and got back together for 2 weeks!lol..yeah, that is a short time. He wanted to ask me a naughty question, but he was too nervous, so i kept guessing....one of the guesses was " to blow you? cuz that is fkin disgusting....i would never do that..." then he was acting a little weird. but then he got back to normal the next day. He never asked me the question. We were going to hang out one day, but i got grounded, and so he decided to call up some other girls to hang out with....i was making him jealous a lot...like telling him about guys hitting on me and wanting to hang out with me and stuff like that...he would get really jealous.....so i broke up with him because he was trying to play me....wen i couldn't hang out he decided to call up some girls and be all flirty, and one of them was my friends......so we separated.......and then today, a week later, his best friend asked me to come over to his house and hang out, and my ex was going to be there...like my question is, how did he just get over me so fast? i don't understand.... (link)
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some guys like myself just have the uncanny ability to do that. Or more likely he hasen't gotten over you he's just acting like he has. well i hope that helped bye!
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Ughh boys... Here's the thing, I am going to try to explain my very cobfusing relationship with Dave in just a few sentences. He likes me (of this I am almost 99% sure) and I like him ALOT. It sounds simple, and it should be, but its not... It started out as friendship, I REALLY opened up to Dave and I learned sooo much about him, and we sort of became something. However, when school started, Dave's friends were really getting on him about it, calling us things like "the couple that isn't dating" and some people even asked me if I was dating him... And I guess this really bugged Dave, because he started ignoring me and it hurt alot. He would ignore me at school, at football games, at friends houses, and he even blocked me online. I confronted him about it and asked him to explain. He told me that his friends were giving him a ton of crap about "us being together" he said at first he tried to ignore it because he really liked me but he just couldn't take it because he really didn't want a girlfriend at the moment. He said he was sorry and that he didn't care anymore, and things were back to normal. Well not normal because we both knew we liked eachother but we wouldnt do anything about it, but it was normal for us. At spread out times we would go for a bit where he would ignore me, but I just never brought it up because it only lasted a few days and I didn't want to appear obsessed (even though I was). Then it would go back to what we called normal (talking 24/7 and walking to class together and hanging out during lunch and going to eachother games etc..) I
couldn't understand that we acted like a couple, but he claimed he didn't want a girlfriend... I just never questioned it. Oh and btw, I don't think he was avoiding claiming us as a couple to avoid being "tied down" or anything like that, he isn't that kind of boy, haha trust me. He has never had a girlfriend before and I think the reason he is refraining is because we are still so young and he may b moving at the end of the year (but that is still so far away...) anyway, at the moment we are in kind of in between "ignore you" and "pretty much together". And I am really just starting to think "what's the point?" all this is doing is hurting me and I don't want to do it anymore. But the thing is... I don't think I CAN just forget about it, if it hurts this much when he ignores me for a few days, I don't even want to think about how painful it would be if I had to let him go... I dont think I can. I'm just so confused!!! Its literally driving me nuts!!! I am CONSTANTLY thinking about him, and everytime I am angry with him he has this uncanny ability to make me adore him all over again, and he isn't even trying to!!! I WANT to forget about him because its hurts to be in the kind of relationship we are in, but I can't because I like him so much!! I know its not healthy and I know he doesn't want a girlfriend but I can't help thinking that maybe someday he will... I can't stop myself from believing we will finally become a real something, and not just a "something" or that we will sometime soon be together instead of "being together". And what if I don't want to give up, and I don't know what I want at all? I don't know what to do. I know we won't be something (or will we???) but how am I going to give it all up? I love being close to him, and although our relationship is painful... I don't think I would ever be able to handle just being friends or anything like that. Please help me, I really don't know what to do... (link)
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I know this is hard for you but you just need to calm down. Me and one of my best friends hang out like that all the time at first people gave us crap for that but we just ignored it (something it seems you've or he has already tried) then guess what we went out and it was great but after a while we decided it wasn't working and broke up. So then we went back to hanging out like before and again people gave us crap for it and again we ignored them and now we're reeeeeeeeally good friends and people don't give a crap and we're both dating other people. so that was a reeeally long way of saying just ask him out if he sais no then confront him and tell him that you want to hang out and i would like you too just ignore whatever kind of crap we get. Eventually it will blow over trust me. Well i hope this helped bye!
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Hi everybody. This is a question for any NAVY girfriends/wives....my boyfrined is in the NAVY, well, at basic and sea school right now, and I know that it's going to keep us physically apart for stretches of time. I love him and I miss him, and just to clarify, I'm not going to leave him because I don't get to see him. Okay, so my question is, how do you girls stay SANE while your boys are gone? How do you get through the seperation? I love and want to marry my current boyfriend, and I know that it's just going to get worse from here,as far as being apart from him because of his career in the NAVY....so how do you do it? (link)
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Well I am a guy but i can relate my girlfriend lives relatively far away aswell but trust me if you really love this guy the only thing you can do is STICK WITH HIM. take it from me. I hope this helped bye!
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Okay so around August me and my ex boyfriend broke up. He was my first love and after it ended it's taken me a while to get over it. I have never been so hurt in my life. Well now im doing pretty okay without him and I met someone else and now we are dating. He is very cute and sweet and I like him very much. But Now I feel weird about it. I know I am not fully over my ex, I still love him very much but I would never go back with him because too much has changed and I know I should be moving on but im starting to get those feelings I had when we first broke up and now I have my new boyfriend, he doesn't know I feel this way but I find it to be very unfair for him because now I'm having second thoughts of whether or not I should be in a relationship but I also feel I shouldn't be letting my feelings for my ex knowing that nothing is going to happen between us again get in the way of me being with someone else. SO now Im really confused and dont know what to do :( (link)
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WOW YOUR JUST LIKE ME!! you want what you can't have and when you get it well soon you don't want it anymore. But in my experiance what you need to do is just stick with the guy for a while or if that doesn't work dump the guy ands try beeing simple for a while but personally from experiance i more suggest you stick with the guy. Hopeed this helped bye!
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I need to know how to ask this guy out that I really like. The only problem is that he is moving in a couple months. HELP!!! (link)
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Me and my girlfriend live in different cities but we work it out we talk for at least 2 hours every day and we both have webcam we are still going very strong and we see each other like 3 times a month infact im seeing her tomoro it doesn't matter where he is living it doesn't matter you like him ask him out i hoped this helped bye!
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Okay well I finally got over my ex,because of this new kid that came to my bus stop. He is totally my type and im totally crushing on him. So i started to flirt and after school i invited him to hang out with me and some of the neighborhood kids at the bus stop. he agreed and then it ended up that they all were going to be late. So it was just me and him. Of course i was excited and he looked pretty happy too. But i was in shorts and a tanktop and he looks at me and says "Dress code again?" and he was flirting so i said "Duh, I would wear this to school if possible" and he stopped and so i stopped to and he looks me up and down and say "Well i don't know why im complaining kuz i like those shorts a lot" and so i smiled and was like "thanks" so we stopped and sat down and we were talking about stuff we liked and didn't like and then my friend best girlfriend came and we were all talking and then my other guyfriend came and i ran towards him to give him a hug and all of the sudden i hear my crush going "Dayum look at her shes so hot" and he said that to my bff and i was like "THANKS" And he started laughing too. So then we were flirting again and joking around and all of the sudden i started talking about my otherguyfriend who has a 6 pack and my crush looks at me with this like flirty look and goes "I have a 6 pack" and im like "no you dont" and he goes "feel it " and im like "okayyy" and i felt his stomach..and he had a 6 pack... so i lifted my hand up.
Then the next day i wrote "i heart (and then my crushes name)" on my hand and when i got off the bus he saw it and was like "(his name) what ?" and i pulled my hand away and was like "Nothing," and then he let it drop but like at the bus stop later on i got rlly embaressed and i was like ignoring him and he saw that so he was like tickling me and stuff and trying to get my attention. But like...idk does he like me ? what should i do to flirt more?
SORRY FOR THE LENGTH.... (link)
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OK well being a guy myself i know what he's doing. He likes you yes but also buy you ignoring him your sending him mixed signals he likes you ask him out i have a girlfriend i know how this stuff works. well hope i helped bye!
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