Gender: Male
Location: boston
Member Since: March 31, 2008
Answers: 3
Last Update: March 31, 2008
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hey.
so i'm a huge fan of "now you're gone" by basshunter.
"find a new way" by young love.
"call on me" by eric prydz.
"put your hands up for detroit" by fedde le grand.
is there a genre that fits those types of songs, or is just like techno? (perhaps with the exception of young love, it's more rock-ish?) (link)
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personally i think it's somewhere in between house music and trance, but these genres all seem to blend into one another. if you want to learn about techno and music like it, potentially learning about some other great musiciansin the process, check out ishkur's guide to electronic music. i don't know if i can post urls here so just google it and it should be the first or second one. it's awesome, though i don't completely agree with everything he has to say about the genres.
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haha this might sound stupid but i needs some guys to answer this, what do you guys like more for kissing, burts bees chapstick or burts bees lip shimmer? thankss (link)
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i'm a guy and i'll be perfectly honest, i can't tell the difference between shimmer and lip gloss. i don't actually know what shimmer is (is it that shiny stuff?)... here's a good way to find out, though: wear one and kiss him. then rinse, and repeat. determine which one is the earth shattering mind blowing kiss where the planets align and the world seems like a better place (or at least good), and go with that one.
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Lately I've just been feeling reeally depressed. But there are reasons. I'm truthfully not good enough for anyone. There's nothing good about me and I can't do anything. I've been giving up on everything because I can't succeed in anything. I've even been cutting my arms which I swore to myself I would never do. When I try to talk about it I just get more depressed and it's just like well nobody knows what I'm going through anyways so why bother. When I'm with people I act totally different from what I feel. I don't like letting people know what I'm feeling, because I'm constantly depressed. I've even considered suicide. >_<
So can someone please help me stop this feeling? I don't want to take anti-depressants because then I'd have to tell my mom and I don't want her freaking out. I don't want to cut anymore, it just feels like a last resort. ): (link)
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hi there,
i have personal experience with being depressed as well, and i have taken medicine for it as well. depression occurs when factors such as stress cause the chemicals in your brain to become imbalanced. anti-depressants are used to balance them so you can start to think a bit more clearer, so you can help yourself get better.
the thing is, sometimes there are things that we can change and then there are other things that we can't. when we can't change certain things in our life, that's when we need to reach out and get some help. there is no crime in getting assistance when you can't solve a problem. it is crucial that you understand, though, that s/he will need to be there to help you through it (instead of telling you what you need to do - only you can know that answer).
my advice is to go and talk to someone accessible. in a perfect world i would suggest a guidance councilor or teacher, but in this case i would recommend going to a spiritual leader such as a minister or a rabbi. it might make you feel more comfortable to go see one you don't know, so there is more degrees of separation between you. don't think i'm suggesting you get into a religion (and if they try to convert you, say thanks and go find someone else), but spiritual leaders can help you come to terms with why you are feeling so despondent and hesitant to talk to your mother. they are trained in talking to people and offering an nonobjective perspective.
first things first! take a deep breath. put down the knife. believe it or not, you are not alone, and trying to kill yourself will make many people around you extremely upset. good luck!
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