well i got this idea from courtney weycamp, but the main reason i made this is because ive been through ALOT of things in my life- and i wanna help other people anything from guys/girls to family i dont care just tell me and i'll try to give you the best advice!
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Member Since: June 14, 2005
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I have a been smoking way to much dope and have been masturbating way to much please tell me somethings i should do to stop by awful habits (link)
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k this is why im stopping this advice thing because its too annyoing to answer things that arnt real like that i love helping people and giving advice so idk whoevers reading this please stop leaving things like this...k thanks
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hey- ok i have a huge struggle right now.. so im going out with this guy and he is absolutely amazing.. its just kinda wierd because we were best friends and then one thing led to another.. and i really like him and i like going out with him.. but moves way too fast.. like he already wants to do big stuff if you catch my drift.. and i don't really want to yet.. we've only been dating for a little while.. how do i handle this without hurting the relationship? (link)
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well ok if your relationship is strong enough and he lieks you as much as he says he does then you should be able to talk to him about it and he needs to understand and respect that..because "communication is key to a healthy relationship" haha
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hi, i was just wondering, you say you have been through a lot. what kind of problems have you faced? have you ever had any addictions to drugs/alcohol etc? id like to know what has made you so good at giving advice. thanks (link)
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yeah because i have been through alot, trust me..um a lot of it is personal and something i dont really like to be open about but my dad dying has definatly given me some aspect of advice and if you would like to know, just IM me if youd like to know, vballchica0011=)
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hey bailey! ok, so my boyfriend's birthday is coming up in december, and i have no idea what to get him! we've only been going out for a little over a month, and i want to get him something that means something, but i don't want it to be too overwhelming. ya know? if you could give me a few ideas that'd be great! you've helped me out with a few other things before and you're great at giving advise! thanks so much!! (link)
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aw thankk ya! alright well a cute idea would be a picture of you two in a frame and like a letter or card because it isnt too much but shows him that you care or get him like adidas moves cologne because it smells like SO good and it isnt that expensive i dont think..i hope i helped!=)
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ok...so i really like this guy, i have liked him on and off since 7th grade!!! and our friends don't hang out with each other and really the only time we talk is when we have class together...i don't know what to do, should i move on? (link)
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nope, you should try to hangout with him over the weeknds and stuff and especially with winter around the corner you guys can go ice skating and stuff and just really get to know him!!=)
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Im making a list for my boyfriend for christmas..
100 reasons why i love you
can you help me get a few? (link)
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haha umm be like because your always tehre for me..idk really because i dont nkow your relationship with him
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I get tanked way too often and tell peopel i have raging boners. what should i do? (link)
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hahhaahhaaahahhahaha
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OMG!! alll the older kids are sooooooooooooooo hotttt it should be illegal....omg what things should i talk to them about if i am in one class with them..like what ?'s or basically what should we talk about im cluless (link)
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haha yeahhh i know, well just like make conversation with them and like really get to know them but just like start conversation..haha and get to know them and stuff
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hey so like i love your hair! like so im a blonde and like blondes get so mocked these days that im thinking i kinda wanna like dye my hair to look like yours! like wouldnt that be totally stellar! like not to be a stalker or anything i just love your hair! is it like natural or like do you get it dyed to look so good...i mean its like shiney and thick and has volume like wow! well tell me what i should do cauz like im kinda getting sick of this blonde color i mean its so last week and i just get mocked for it and ppl like you are smart so hopefully you can give me some good advice...thanx so much buddy! (link)
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hey! haha thanks..nope ive actually never dyed my hair..and awww haha thank you, well alright you can buy volumizer and stuff, i try to like keep my hair healthy i guess, so not straightening it every day helps even though i have to straighten my bangs haha and like blonde hair can still look really pretty but do what you want im sure it will look good!:)
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I AM UGLY AS SIN!!! what should i do.. i really need your help pleaseee help me.. idk what to do with my life!! no one likesme the world is evil to me and i cry myself to sleep every night.!!!! (link)
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uhh have bettter self esteem im sure your beautiful:)
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I have a friend that well kinda gets abused by her parents, she gets hit, and wipped, and swore at... she doesnt say anything to her parents just tries to love them and live with them, i know she doesnt like her parents either, she wont talk to them and she wont let someone else talk to them for her either, so what should i do? (link)
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well this is bad..you NEED to talk to a guidance counseler/assistant principal/an adult that you trust right away..abuse like isnt something jsut to let go..you need to do something, so you need to talk to a trusted adult and get help!
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i hate life!! HELP>>..jusst talk about stuff to cheer me up my highlight of my day is to see your profile and pics...soo update your pics a lot bcuz it cheers me up and i love your beatuful long away messages....just i love stuff to read and look at i look foward to coming home and reading waht other probmelms pppl have..this i no joke...please (link)
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:):) alright! im glad im helping! just keep your head high and be greatful for life..
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well lately my parents have been lieing to me about TONS of things...and not like little things either, they are like things that could effect me for the rest of my life. They have been lieing to me for like 4 months consistantly and even a little bit last winter. Its getting so hard to trust them becuase i dont want to get my hopes up and get crushed like i have been in the past. Also its starting to get hard to trust other people becuase i always think how can i trust other people i dont know as well if i cant trust my own parents? I've always had a good relationship with my parents until now. I dont have a bad relationship with them its just kinda getting a little rocky. I tell them all the time about how i feel about all the promises that they have broke and all they say is your right and i'm sorry, but they still do it a lot! This may sound kinda crazy but its getting to the point where i cant take it anymore... any advice will help!!! (link)
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okay well trust IS something that is hard to gain from people, so its totally understandable that you have a hard time trusting others once someone has taken away your trust..but im not just saying this, you NEED to confront your parents and like striaght up tell them how you feel because they need to know and you need to tell them why you think things are changing..and im really sorry this is kinda hard but i seriously hope i helped!=)
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ok i just want to ask you how you stay in such good shape, i mean i see you at school and you just look SOOOOOOOOOO healthy and in shape, can you please tell me what you do...i mean i just wanna know how u fuckin do it~!! what's your size anyways...like 8 or 10? well let me know thx (link)
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aw, thanks!:) well what i try to do is maintain like good eating habits and stuff,and i try to like work out and stuff not to an extent really but just condition myself so i stay in good shape..and yeah for my size im either a 6 or 8 it just dependss..umm yeahhh haha well i hope everything works out for you!
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what are the B's all about??? (link)
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idk we're just like 4 best friends and as a joke we just named ourselves the b's because becca bailey and bonnie, and marisa we call "the mother b" haha because shes our like best friend but her name just doesnt start with a b, we dont really like take ourselves seriously and yeahh!:)
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Hey!! ok so theres this guy right? hes a junior and i think he is so damn hot!( im a sophmore) and i dont know him at all but i really want to find a way to get to know him because i want him! But i dont have any classes with him at all but sometimes he is where i am but we never like talk? So how do i let him know that i am intrested but at the same time i want to get to know him? And its kind of wierd because not a lot of girls like him or think hes hot? so help me! how do i make it show but not show too much that i am like desperate! (link)
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alright haha well im kinda on the same boat as you aree sorta kinda..yeah but ok you should be yourself around him and like, talk to him on the phone at school at lunch after school, like and hang out with him and stuff..and i think he'll probably get that your interested, like and if you can sense theres something then go for itt! haha and it shouldnt matter really what other people think about him because like what you see in him is what you should base him off of..and just like im him or whatever or smile at him in the halls..kinda slow hints haha to show him your interestedd!
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ok the person who said the thing about not knowing terms or sex.. they want to know like "terms for sex" and like things related to it now can u answer them? cuz i want to know too and i know how they feel not knowing and like feeling left out.. (link)
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alrightt umm haha well like..i dont know what "terms" you want to know like i understand but its just kind of hard to think off the top of my head sex terms..like yeahh sorry
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hey bae..im not just saying this your seriosly really pretty and i dont think you know how pretty you are like im not just saying that "sarcastically or kidding"..like youve really turned into a gorgeously stunning girl and thanks for everything:)
love you (link)
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aww!:) thank you thats so sweeet haha and im glad i could help
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hey bailey i have 2 questions for u
one is that im starting to get fat do you have any exercise tips/workouts nad healthy eats and stuff and my other ? is
kinda personal
im kinda cluless about sex and all the meanings like that one person about orgasm, what are like a lot of the terms you no..please i feel soo left out wen my friends (maybe you) talk aboutt this stuff and i dont no what they are and i always feel soo left out...me and my mom have a bad past and i cant turn to anyone but you because you dont no who i am and i feel wierd asking people....PLEASE ANSWER ME SERIOUSLEY (link)
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uhh alright well first of all for a good workout plan..you want to okay heres like a good one
mondays and wednesdays- do a cardio workout and go for a run
thursdays and tuesdays and saturdays- do conditioning, like after school go to a weight room and like lift and things like for vball conditioning thats what we do and you really get toned and yeahh and for a diet, just try to eat 3 meals a day healthy ones and drink as much water as you can!=)
and for the sex thing...uhh i dont know specifically what you want to know so i cant help you there sorry
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wtf??? anyway i feel really bad for you bae im so sorry!!! (link)
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this is like getting annoying
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