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Member Since: November 14, 2004
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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO! (link)
Ok here's the thing. I'm mormon. I'm dating a non-mormon and we've been going out for 6 months and are basicly sure that we'll get married. I don't think religion should matter if the other person is fine with your decisions about God or whatever/whoever you worship. If his parents have a problem with the two of you seeing eachother then that shouldn't stop you. Some mormon parents are strict about what their children do and how they uphold church standards and they are afraid of 'outside church' relationships because they think the world is 'bad'. You could try to show the parents that you are a good person. I don't think that you should give up on him just because of his religion. If he's up for it, give the relationship a chance. You shouldn't pass up the opportunity. But most of all. DO NOT convert ONLY to win the boy. Find out what the religion is about, talk to the missionaries, read the Book of Mormon, pray about it, and decide for yourself if you think you should join. Don't make it based on a guy.




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