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14/female
ok like i reallly hate my life. But i live in a semi good neighborhood with a good famliy (mom, dad and sister) in a good house and everything but like nothing ever goes my way. Like i dont think im that pretty.. im 14 and only had 1 boyfriend (which only lasted 2 weeks ) and all my other friends have had manyy boyfriends and like all my friends that are girls are prettier than me in my opinion. and i dont really have a bestfriend. i used to but now someone else is her bestfriend. So now i just have like friends, but only like 4 really close friends. I'm naturally a very nice person.. but you know what they say: nice people finish last. Also, im a bit of a pushover. People sometimes just "walk all over me" and i cant really stand up for myself. I am very self-conscious about myself and im not that confident.
But then i think about the poor people or homeless people who probably have 20 times worse life than me and it makes me feel bad that i complain about my life when i should be thankful. So my question.. do you think my life is good or bad? is there anything i can do to improve my life? or should i be thankful instead? (link)
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Hi
Tell u what, if we keep licking our wounds what we find at the end of it is our skeleton. So pick yourself up and seize the moment, the hour and the day.
Out of experience i can tell u that I was steady for 3 years with my girlfriend, we broke up and for 2 years i would not let go of the gamut of feelings. Finally one day as i left my home to visit my best friend to cry on his shoulder, I found that i was walking with a clenched fist, a tight walk and with lot of resistance in my body.
That moment i took deep breaths and said it is not worth it. When i met my friend that day i did not discuss anything that was my past and till day 13 years later i still do not visit my past except if it is a learning for strangers(Unknown friends) like you.
Take care
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