Member Since: December 31, 2005
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Last Update: December 31, 2005
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ive known this guy for about 5 years and hes my best friend. i never used to think i had feelings for him until now. but things are getting confusing now, when we hang out he'll do things like put his arm around me or cuddle and i dont know what to think. im starting to feel things for him but i have no idea what he feels about me. i dont know if i should ignore these feelings because i dont want to ruin the friendship we have. any advice would be helpful. (link)
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I think you both are in the same situation. Hes trying to tell you that he likes you more than just a friend but he too cannot do much about it because you're his best friend. A friendship is one of the greatest things a person can have with someone. A "dating" relationship means absolutely nothing compared to what you have with this guy.
Just wait, you know it will just happen by itself, and you both will be aware of its bloomingness (if thats a word) but probably wont tell one another because you are both frightened of both the asking out part and the breaking-up part (consequences-both of which can ruin such a beautiful friendship as you obviously realize). Asking someone out is sort of asking them for permission to be in a "dating" relationship BUT you two don't need any of that. As I see it, you two already have it...and what you have right now is everything. Cherish it and be happy. I mean, I would love to have a best friend I can talk to and be myself around like you do.
Continue to be who you are and dont ignore these feelings or his feelings because they are the strongest one can feel.
Much love
*j#@~S*$^Y
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