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My boyfriend confessed to me today that he cheated on me last weekend when he went out with his buddies. He said that he had sex with a strange girl that he met at a club/bar and he regrets doing it now. I still think he's lying about a few of the details because one of his buddies told me that they didn't go to just any club or a bar--they went to a strip club.
I'm really upset about it but my boyfriend says he's truly sorry and that it won't happen again. My best friend reminded me of the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and I am wondering if it's true. I don't think my boyfriend fully understands what his mistake has done to our relationship, and I don't know if I will be able to get over this betrayal anyway.
In your own experience, is the, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," saying true? Does anyone have any cases in which the saying is NOT true? Please, share your experiences with me so I know if I need to just end this madness before it really gets started! (link)
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honestly, i've been there. and i forgave him because i loved him so much, but six months later here we are in a mess and probably gonna break up. it created so many problems. i thought i could be the bigger person and trust him and he hasn't done anything since but now he's paranoid about me cheating on him for revenge, and i am still to this day deeply hurt by it.
for me, no matter how hard i tried i still got caught up in how much questioning comes afterwards. does he really love me like he says he does? what about me pushed him to someone else? is he gonna do it again? it eats at you.
but that's just me. i say if you can't bear letting him go, then try it. but know when it just isn't working and know if you can't get past it.
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