Member Since: June 28, 2005
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Last Update: June 28, 2005
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I'm 15/f and I've had a boyfriend for about a week who has been my best friend for a while. My problem is that he's been trying too hard to become close with my friends. I know that sounds stupid, but I just don't want his relationship with them to be as close as his relationship with me. I like that he's a separate part of my life than my friends are and I really just want it to stay that way. I'm just used to my friends stealing my close friendships away and I don't want that to happen with him. Am I being too paranoid? How exactly do I tell him how I feel? (link)
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if this is really bothering you, doing something is always better than doing nothing, the best way to deal with it is to be honest and direct. mention to your boyfriend that it bothers you but try being as nice as possible about it because i'm sure he was trying so hard because he wants to impress you. to show you how great of a guy he is by getting to know your friends.
however, this probably isn't as big as you think it is and you've only been going out for a week. so maybe just try only seeing him without your friends for a little while
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