Member Since: August 21, 2008
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Last Update: August 21, 2008
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I had an affair for a few weeks and we did have sex 1 time. It blew up horribly when my spouse found things. She does not know we were intimate and I really do not want her to know. She is a wreck and so am I. I am afraid that this will kill her - she is a little unstable right now. Why does she even need to know these details? I can carry this secret to my grave. If this were known, I believe we will end up in a divorce and our home w/kids will be destroyed, and I do not want that to happen! It seems like I remember Dr. Laura mentioned once that a one-time affair (not a long lasting one) didn't need to be disclosed. Why burden your spouse with this. Why dump these rocks on them. Its your burden to carry. Help. (link)
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Honesty is the best policy. If she really loves you she will somehow struggle through it. You made a choice and now ultimately she has to live with your choice and it will never change. When you know better, you do better. Do not ever let yourself get in another situation like this unless you are ready to leave your wife and shatter your family. The grass isn't also greener, that person has crap too.
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