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Hi I'm Jay and I'm 15 and my boyfriend told me he bought condoms today, he's 16, and we haven't done anything more than make out and touching.And him buying condoms is kind of shock to me, I asked him why he bought them and he said just in case but we won't be doing anything anytime soon. He knows I'm still iffy on having sex and that I'm not sure If I want to do it yet. What does this mean. Is he planning on having sex with me? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks (link)
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Hi Jay. Okay so you're boyfriend bought condoms. I can't say if he's planning to have sex with you or anything but is he forcing you to do it with him? Is he in a hurry to do it with you? if he is, then there's a problem. the problem is, you guys shouldn't be in a hurry to have sex already not until you guys are married. if he really loves you, he'll respect you. and he shouldn't be dating you if the only thing he wants from you is sex. But if he's not pushing you and saying that you guys will only do that if you're ready well it's really up to you if you want to. but i suggest that you do what is the right thing. you know what's the right thing right? you see you should be saving you're virginity to that true guy that you'll marry someday. you should to him about it and explain that you're not ready yet as a teen. and you'll only do it with him if you guys are married. if he understand that, then it's good. but if he doesn't and still forces you to do it with him i don't think he's the right one for you honey. he should have respect too. it's very important. don't go waiting for the time you'll regret doing it with him when he hurts you. well im not saying that he is but we never know.. and please this is just my advice please dont think that he only wants the sex. just talked about it to him.. God bless you dear. and remember no matter what happens, you'll never regret the right things. :)
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