Member Since: December 19, 2007
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Last Update: December 19, 2007
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ok so i met this guy online and we got on really well so we decided to meet up. we had been alkin about a year and we met up 3 months ago. problem is, when we met i was just not attracted to him. we are still really good friends and we have spoken every day since we met up and i meet up with him every weekend.
i have really strong feelings for him and i think i might be in love with him...but again, im not attracted to him at all.
is that possible?
He said to me tonight that he thinks we should cool it for a while and not talk because he's afraid that he might like me more down the line, which would do neither of us any good because it isnt gonna go anywhere. i dont know if he was just saying that to see what id say or if he actually meant it.
i dont wanna lose him but i dont think i will be able to not talk to him whenever i want to. i know that he has strong feelings for me too but i think that he IS attracted to me!
what do i do??? (link)
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I think it is 100% possible. Being attracted to someone in my eyes is a just a bonus. There is so much more to a relationship than being attracted to someone - the person you are can make you attractive. If you have a great personality then your way more attractive than someone with great looks and physique. I think you should take it slowly until u know exactly what your feelings are just so you and ? don't get hurt. I myself was in this same situation, i was set up with a man and before we met we txt and spoke all the time n even before we met i knew i was falling for him. When we met i wasn attracted to him in the slightest but we got on so well so i stuck at it. We were friends at first like yourself and ? and the more time i spent with him the more attractive he became. If you cant imagine not speaking to him whenever you want then there is definately something there.
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