Member Since: December 11, 2012
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Last Update: December 11, 2012
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what can i do in order for my mom not to take me to a doctor nd find out if i am a virgin or not? (link)
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It cannot be proven whether or not you are a virgin by a doctor. A woman's hymen can break before she has sexual intercourse for the first time for several reasons: horseback riding, gymnastics, exercise etc. Rest easy, it cannot be proven.
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now, we've been really good together but lately he's been acting a bit cold. He doesn't text me that often anymore, or when he does... It's always me texting and starting the conversation first, he's acting like he's not interested anymore. I will admit, I'm telling him what to do, well not necessarly telling him. But whenever he does something I don't like, whether it's hanging with girls or speaking to them etc, I tend to go moody and be really stressy. I have no idea what to do, I've tried to ask him if I've done anything wrong but he says I haven't and goes back to being cold. He's never affectionate towards me anymore, I never hear the words "I love you" unless it's me saying it and then he obviously says it back. I have no idea on what to do, I know you can't make someone stay when they want to leave but he's not said he doesn't want to be with me anymore, but that's how it feels. I don't want to lose him, I really don't, but I'll give it another month and I feel as though I will have lost him by then. Coming from a male themselves, and obviously a female, can you both give me your opinions on why he's gone cold and what I should do to over come this? I'd really appreciate it. (link)
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I've been in your situation before. I'm 22 and in a relationship with a guy and he tried the same thing when we first started dated. About a month in it was as though he wasn't really interested anymore.
The way I dealt with it, I stopped messaging him until he messaged me. I left it for a couple of days and then he messaged me asking me if I was ok and why I haven't contacted him. I told him that I never received messages from him anymore so i didn't want to message him.
It opened up a great line of communication between the two of us and we managed to talk everything out and things are good now.
I know its hard to try and start conversations with a partner about being unhappy. Especially at 16, but you need to be honest with him and yourself. If he is truly who you want to be with, then get the courage to tell him how you feel about this, but make sure you do it calmly.
Good luck, I hope you sort out your problem!
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