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Member Since: December 11, 2012
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Last Update: December 11, 2012
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So I starting seeing this one guy a few months back. Nothing too serious came of it, but we became great friends and hang out whenever we can. The only downfall to this guy is that he rarely has some to spare. He works full time in the military yet is determined, intelligent, funny, loving, has a balanced lifestyle and when we are together he makes me smile alot. Not to mention he loves cooking from scratch/learning about food which I like because I am a chef. Yes, I do want to date him because he is one of those rare/perfect guys that I can connect with. BUt I guess I'm unsure cuz he isn't always going to be there for me, cuz of his job. That is one of the things I look for in a guy; to know that he is reliable and will be there for me when I may need him. I'm not saying I don't appreciate what he does I'm just saying I like a guy that I can spend more time with, go out with more... kiss more often. I do love every minute I spent with him so far.


Now, guy number two came along... We met a couple months after I met the 1st and this guy is sort of the opposite of #1. He is sweet, kind, loving, sincere, everything I've wanted in a boyfriend annnd he cooks too. But, he has his downfalls as well.. he is really insecure because of his last gf controlling his life for the past 7 years. I have to remind him he's a good guy because he lacks confidence (turn off for me) and he needs reassurance. It's not his fault, his past (ex) made him this way. Yet when I'm with him and he is being himself, I feel this connection that's maybe a bit stronger than with the 1st guy.. the problem is just that he can't let go of his past to let me into his future. If he could I think we'd be perfect together too...


My feelings are so confused right now, I'm falling for both guys. I know I really enjoy both their company and they both have their ups and downs. I just don't know which one I should make my bf, they both want to date me ?? How do I know which one is right for me? I feel stuck in the middle. (link)
I always say go with number two. If number one was so amazing you wouldn't have a number two!


I started my period today after a few days of cramping and back pain. The only thing is my blood is coming out thin and brown. My blood has yet to be red like it usually is. Today was the first day of my period and I wasn't sure if I should be worried that the blood is brown. Is this normal? (link)
I would say that's normal. The brown discharge is the oldest part so it's brown. Day two you should begin to see it become more red.




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