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iv'e been depressed for a really long time now, when i first told my friend i was depressed a really long time ago she said it was just a phase that everyone goes through and i'd get over it in like a month. well it's been almost 6 or 7 months and i keep getting more and more depressed. i feel so lost all of the time and i cry a lot but i don't exactally know why. i mean, i have friends and a really great boyfirned... i also went through 2 "phases" i guess, were i would cut myself [don't worry, i stopped. but i didn't ever get help so i'm afraid its going to start again] when somthing bothers me, i'm not the type of person that would make it stop.. i just kind of keep it inside and deal with it later. i also am becoming over sensitive, like the other day my friend reiss was messing with me and i compleatly lost it.. i ran out of the room and skipped two clases. i don't know whats wrong with me or how i can make it stop.... please help (link)
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First off Tell someone please? And not just the people on here. Because if you have a feeling that your gonna cut again then mostliky u will cut again. Take it from me. I still have depression but i got mine under cotrol. But when i didnt have it under control i completly lost it and started another whole phase of cutting. my cutting has been on and off for about 3 years. dont let that happen to u! please? if u need someone to talk to IM me on AIM solastmonthx
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Okay well i guess this isn't a diet, but all I eat pretty much is like junk food and im kinda overweight..i think anyways..so i want to try and stop eating that and eat healthy. The thing is, since thats like all thats in my house is things that are bad for you its hard and thats what i crave all the time-sugar or something so its really hard to stick with it..what should i do to keep with the healthy food and stuff and not eat sugary things or junk food?? (link)
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Uhhh buy health food?
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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help! (link)
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yea u can
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Erggg...I'm 13 and i STILL weigh only 70 pounds!! i'm not worried that i'm short, it's okay with me, but i really need to gain weight! i dont wanna die form this! And pigging out on junk food dont help either.... (link)
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Ummm talk to your docter?
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how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation? (link)
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Start talking about something they like. And then slowly start asking them about it and then tell them that they could bleed severly and die if they hit a main blood vesal. I soo totaly know what can happen. I was soo close to dieing once from cutting WAY too deep. Hope I helped much.
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alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno! (link)
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First off for the cutting. Wear rubber bands on your wrists and snap them whenever you feel like your going to cut. I URGE you to tell your parents/guardians that you have been cutting. Because it'll be soo much easier. And with the eating thing. Try eating slow. And dont eat so much. Just take it slow. And not to shove it all in at once.
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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me. (link)
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First off I know exactly where your coming from. Wear rubber bands on your wrists and snap them whenever you have a urge to cut. To bring it up to your parents , sit them down and start off slowly and and then just bring it on them. Tell them that you want to see a phycolist. And make sure that they understand and their supportive. hope i helped.
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16/f.... this may be a stupid question, but what are those people called that you talk to about your problems and you tell them everything and then they give you advice and everything is confidential. They do it for a living. Nothing SERIOUS is going on in my life (ex. I'm not pregnant, I don't go drugs, I'm not a lesbian, etc.), but I feel like I can't talk to my parents (about guys or whatever) I never have and I probably never will. I'm an only child and I've been the center of their lives for 16 years and I hate it. I always have...I wish I can share the spotlight with someone, but thats not going to happen. Sometimes I wish they didn't care about me AS MUCH as they do. I feel like I need to go see one of those people because I've kept so much inside of me all my life and now I think I need to deal with a professional who can help me. And I'm afraid of a lot of things (I always have visions of disturbing things in my head, but thats a different story). How can I tell my parents I need one of those people without hurting them? (link)
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phycolgist:-) i go to one so I would know! hope i helped!
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I have been having this problem for quite sometime. I am a cutter. And i can't really stop. I have been going to counseling and I had been taken off antidepressants. My mood hasnt gotten any better, it feels alittle worse. Parents are no help, my dad thinks that I am doing this for attention and he yelled and screamed at me saying that I am faking everything and its just a waste of money to keep the counseling going. So now, I am not in that anymore. I feel terrible, worse possibly. And my freind who I have known since the second grade is going through problems, she is cutting herself and trying to kill herself. I have been trying to give her advice but, how do I give advice to someone who is doing the same things as me? I need some major help and someone to talk to. (link)
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I can relate to you in so many ways. I was a cutter for 3 years. I went to consouling and still am. First off to get you to stop take all sharp ojects out of your reach. Take anything and everything that you could possibly use and put them all somewhere , where you wont get to them. Put rubber bands on your wrists and snap them whenever you feel like cutting. Stick in there. Your not the only one going through this. Stay away from anyone that would make you have an urge to cut. Talk to your parents and tell them about all of it. Tell them that your not doing it for attention.. Tell them that its not helping that their saying all that stuff to you. Make sure they understand. If nun of that works ask to stay at a friends house for awhile to get away from all the drama and just relaxe and have a good time with your friend. I hope I helped. Im always here if you need a friend to talk to . If you have AIM/AOL talk to me. My name on there is " solastmonthx " I swear Ill be there to talk to. Im a insomniac so Ill mostliky be online to talk to.
-brit
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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f) (link)
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Just being nice. Opening doors. Knows how to dress. And isnt into those hoes.
:p
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