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Its been almost one year since this all began. It all started early September and when Josh broke up with me September 21st 2006 I went into a huge depression. I cut my wrists, stopped talking for a little, and completley lost myself. Since he broke up with me hes only gone out with one other girl, my best friend, but hes gone out with her 5 times off and on. But he has gone out with me about 5 times off and on too. So theres this tension between me and my bff now. But also since he broke up with my I kept trying to replace him with someone else. On my second try (Steven) is when things went out of control because when he broke up with me the entire depression thing got worse and I don't know who I am, or who I am supposed to be. Now I'm doubting whether or not I love my current bf. Am I just trying to replace Steven? Or am I still trying to replace Josh? For a while I had no problem saying I love you. But my sister said "Ever since Josh you haven't been the same" and Im shocked at how right she is. How do I find myself again, but now that I think about it I don't even know if I want my old self back because I always hated the way I was. And now im just so confused. I don't really have a specific question but what's your opinion on this whole thing? Please anyone help me. (link)
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Well, it's normal to get depressed, though generally not to these extremes, although i've been there and done that until i required a psychiatrist's attention.... the only way to really to fix this is to think about:
1) who you are right now
2) who you want to be
3) how you are going to become that person
such as, if you want to stop depression, although it may sound cheesy, sometimes it does help to have a psychiatrist, or at least a really good friend to share your problems with.
or, if you want to know what to do about guys, think about taking a break for a while. or maybe considering why you truly love your current boyfriend. and perhaps reasons why you may have loved you past boyfriends. and then maybe sort the reasons why you don't love them. it might help you figure out your feelings.
...if you need more help, just message me.
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