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Q: I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you
welll, you were meant to live. you were meant to be happy and you were meant to live for a reason. dont be ashmaed of yourself or anything. everyone has problems in there life, but that dosent mean you give up. Little by Little, youre life will get better it will just take some time.

Q: i have a girl, even though we dont sleep with each other yet. she doesnt call me. i do all the calling, all the time. when i told her am not comfortable about her not calling, she yet odesnt call. shoudl i keep taking her seriously?
of course. just like below, people dont like to talk on the phone. I hate talking on the phone. Just because she dosent call you, dosent mean she dosent love you or anything. gluck with everytthing

Q: i want to impress my bf of 4 1/2 yrs. for v-day. and i want to do something fun a special. i want to go to dinner and wear a sassy dress and everything. but after that what should we do, that will make him feel loved.
i think you should have the dinner and the sassy dress, then you could just sit and talk and cuddle with him, or tell him you want to do that. It depends on how old you are.. have fun (=

Q: Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks
Ohh yeah.

I play sports all year long and when i play them hard, my period wont come for a while after the due date. Dont worry, totally norm. :] Much Love, *Hilary

Q: okay...well i have been having discharge really badly lately, since i think about 6 grade ive had it, but lately its been getting bad....sometimes it will cool off and not be so heavy...but then sometimes it gets thick and i can't stand it, is there any reason why? and does anybody know of any good meds. for it? all answers and ill rate 5's

well this happens to me sometimes too...


have you gotten your period yet? if not that could be the reason why, maybe youre getting it.

If not, you may want to get it checked , but im sure its nothing serious.


much love,
Hilary*

Q: ok can you get pregnant by being AROUND sperm. not actually having sex?? like if it was on a surface er in the shower. like if you use the bathroom & theres sperm er anything??

thanks
If you touch it, and then put it inside of you. Then yes, but if you dont touch it theres no possible way you can get pregnant. Much love
advicinator Hilary*

Q: well, a few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me, then he asked me back out. then he broke up with me again. then he asked me back out ad were still dating and have been for about 5 months now! im so happy with him but yesterday we started making out and after about 10 minutes he said " do you want to?" and i was stunned. I though he would leave me if i said no so, we had sex. It was great but i was scared. Im only 14 and ive had sex already! Im not a slut i just love my boyfriend alot. the problem is, hes a yeaar younger than me. He's 13. Yes, you probably thinks thats dirty but help me, what do i say to him without sounding like a slut that tells him i loved his sex and i want to do it again ? thanks sincerly,-*lovinhim*-
Hey lovinhim,
Well, you could just say "hun, what we did was great and i think it shows our love for eachother." Or something like that. you know? dont say it soundy slutty, say it with affection! have fun sex and BE SAFE. love always *hil*«---

Q: why are 7th graders so stupid???????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Your a fag. Go away and dont be immature

Q: hey this is Hilary! This is my advice column. You can ask me ANYTHINGGGG! absolutly anything! hehe anyways dont be afraid.. you can sign it as anonomous ! Love ya lots!
lol YES!

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