Member Since: November 5, 2012
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Last Update: November 5, 2012
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ok so my guy friend weve been friends for quite a while now and i never knew that he really likes me how do i go about this ok well to start off with hes like lets say 29 or so and im like 19 so do i tell him i like him too that we can go out or do i just tell him i want him as a friend and thats it help me please (link)
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Some people have over 15 years differnce in their age. A date can't harm anyone
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ok today i started using tampons...and i left my tampon in for 2 hours.i know it says 4-8 hors but i was curious. when i went to pull it out it hurt.i tugged at it slowly and finally got it out. is this normal? (link)
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Your just getting used to them, so it shouldn't cause to much concern yet. And it is true when you are a virgin they tend to hurt worse because your entrence is relatively small.
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I just bought these long black leggings but im not sure what to wear them with ? like with shorts or boots ..and is it ok if i just wear them as "jeans"? (link)
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Leggings are not jeans. However, as long as the top you are wearing covers your rear end your perfectly fine.
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I had a orgasm with my bf last month.he inserted finger in my vagina but it was clean.i missed my periods by one month.can i get pregeant? (link)
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Only if sperm was envolved. Some girls go months without having their period. It's perfectly normal.
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Hello, 18 female, freshman in college. Since coming to college at the end of August, I've realized that I've made about 4 friends (not including the friends that have come to the same college that I've known in high school.) So, all in all, I have about 7 good friends. I'm quiet and shy so I'm not one to go and just talk to someone and just become best friends. But as I'm walking around or getting lunch to take back to my room because all of my friends are in class so I eat in my room and study, I see these girls walking around in groups of like, 20 people. That only makes me feel like I'm really weird that I don't have a lot of friends. I find that I'm usually in my dorm studying and not out at parties or doing crazy "normal" college kid things. Sure, I talk to the people in my building but we don't hang out or have dinner together. I just feel like my life is boring and maybe I'm looking for somebody to reassure me that it's better to have a little bit of friends than a whole bunch of fake ones. Just, I guess, do you have a lot of friends at school and how did you make so many new friends? Is it weird that I'm so introverted? Thanks. (link)
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I'm the exact same way. I am shy myself and have a hard time dealing with conflict. It deffinitley isn't weired a lot of people have trouble making friends. Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there. Start in class. Start talking to other students about class befoe and after it wont seem as weired that way. After you build up your confidence start talking to people who arn't in your classes. Pin point someone who seeem alone. They'll be more willing to talk to you.
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I am an 18 year old female. One night, my friends ( Lucy and Karen) and I were getting ready to go out to a party, we had to take shifts because the car we were going in could only hold 5 people and there was 11 of us going. When we finally all got to the party, we all were hanging out and talking. Before the party, I was telling my friends that I never drink to get drunk because I don't like waking up the next day and not remembering what happened the night before. I am a social drinker, I guess you could say. Well, during the party while my friends were drinking more than me, they were off talking to boys and such, I was sitting on the kitchen table talking to Karen's best friend who is a boy that she has a crush on. I could still to this day, two weeks later, recite everything we talked about. We talked about Karen and if he has feelings for her and if he would ever want to be with her. I, then, talked to my guy friend about my previous conversation about Karen to her crush. The music was loud and the appartment was full so as we were talking, my head was on his shoulder so that I could talk in his ear that he'd hear me and he did the same thing when he talked to me. After the party, I left with this kid named Will. He said he would walk me back to my dorm after we walked into town so that he could get cigarettes. So, the whole walk he was calling my Karen and Lucy to see where they were (mind you, Will was drunk) and was getting very angry when they weren't answering their phones, calling them fucking bitches for not picking up and stupid for not leaving with him. Well, as we were walking into the parking lot of the gas station, we found Lucy. She ran up to Will and he hugged her and everything. He went in to get his cigarettes. I stayed outside. When they came out, we walked back to campus. They decided to go one way and check on Karen who was at her dorm with her crush. I was pissed that they just left me so I texted Lucy and told her that I was pissed and that I feel like I don't belong in their little friendship because a friend wouldn't leave me alone on a college campus to walk to my dorm by myself at 2 am. She texted me back freaking out that she is so done with this petty bullshit and that she heard what I said about her and that she is so done being my friend, she did like me but now she doesn't. I know for a fact that I said NOTHING bad about her. Like I said, I don't drink to get drunk so I would not forget that I "talked shit on her" if I didn't even drink to be drunk. The next morning, I texted Karen, she replied with a snarky comment. I asked what was wrong and she said the same thing: that she heard what I said about her. Again, I talked to two people about her; her crush and my friend and both of those conversations were good, how I think they deserve to be with each other to be happy and how they're so adorable together. I know, again, for a fact that I did not talk shit or Karen nor Lucy. I also know, after thinking about it, that Will was the one that told them I was saying bad things about him because he was the last person they talked to. It's funny.. he was talking shit on them calling them fucking bitches and stupid, yet they're still friends with him.
Two weeks later, I am moving on from being friends with them. If they don't believe me then why should I keep trying to convince them that I didn't say anything bad, ya know? Anyways, I was having dinner the other night in the dining hall with my roommate, ten minutes after I sat down, Karen and Lucy and Will and his friend were leaving the dining hall and they all gave me the rudest looks as they were leaving. It's enough to be mad at me for something I didn't do but to give me snarky looks and such crosses the line for me. Like, I'm trying to get over it.. why aren't they?
The whole gist of this is, how do I make myself not care about them anymore? When they give me rude looks, how do I just forget about it and brush it off my shoulders? I just want this whole thing to be over. If they don't want to friends over something stupid, whatever but get on with your life and stop being so rude to be.
I'm sorry this is so long and confusing but any help will do. (link)
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Friendships change all the time in college. Especially in your first year of college. People will form their own opinions about you and not sway from them. I suggest you just forget about them you know your concise is clear and that is all you need to know.
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