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Member Since: September 1, 2007
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Last Update: September 1, 2007
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I am VERY self-conscious. For example, I don't like to eat infront of anybody(except my family). I don't eat lunch at school, because I don't like people around me watching me eat.

I'm a chunky kid, and I don't eat very much. But I know when i eat i can just mentally picture everyone saying, "Omg, ew, she's so fat. She should be eating those chips!" And the reality is, I KNOW that the people i sit with wouldn't say that. But at that moment, I still feel like they are.

Is there anything I can do to overcome my self esteem problem?

And don't say, "Just get over it." Because that won't work. (link)
My friend is also like that...She mainly overcame it be her friends telling her that it was ok to eat and that they wouldn't say a word about it...My friends and I helped her through the whole close...Don't be afraid to ask your friends for support...Trust me...If their your friends...They'll be there for you and their completely understand...Everyone's self-concscious about something...




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