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Gender: Female
Age: 17
Member Since: July 4, 2011
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m

My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that it would be a huge turn on for him for us to have sex with the lights on. Because it would be really romantic to be able to stare into each others eyes, and he would be able to see everything.

however im very very insecure with my body, and thats why i like having sex in the dark, because i dont have to worry about what i look like. Although he told me he's already seen my 'problem areas' he says i have nothing to worry about and that he loves my body. but im very well aware that im overweight. especially compared to his previous girlfriends. id love to be intimate with him with the lights on purely for the romance of it all... but im to caught up and worried about my body.
is there any tips or anything to help me 'hide' the flaws of my body in the light?
id really love to do this for him, even though im insecure (link)
I understand exactly what your going through. I'm 17 and right there with you. I'm overweight and I'm very insecure about showing my body. But I've also been in you exact situation where i didnt want my boyfriend to see my body. And he told me the same thing yours told you. "i love your body" so i figured big he Jan love my body then why Kant bi. Love yourself for who you are. So i went ahed and gave it a try.and what do you know. He was telling the truth. He loves me for me. So i want to tell you. To love you for you and go for it. U never know what could come of it.

Best wishes
-shiika




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