Member Since: April 15, 2011
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Last Update: April 15, 2011
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I hate it when he looks or talks to a girl. it bothers me! ugh i hate it so much.
all of the stupid girls in school like him.. i feel like hes never gonna be mine 100%. we've been going out for almost 8 months and im not happy at all, i mean like im happy with him.. we're both in love and stuff but i feel like my head is gonna blow up.. everyday i start thinking crap.. and i fill my head with stupid dumb thoughts about him being with another girl and stuff.. he tells me that he only wants me and that he loves me and yeahh im just scared :[
what if i stop being jealous & i finally trust him 100% and then boom.. he cheats on me? i will feel like garbage, like nothing. that would destroy me. i dont know what i would do :/
i need help.. i hate being jealous. I DONT WANT THIS ANYMORE :[ its ruining my relationship.
every day we fight bc of me. bc of my jealousy.. bc of girls. :(
I dont want to lose him. ever (link)
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girl im going through the same problem as you are. I have been dating mine for 15 months and i still feel like crap when he talks to other girls or says a girl is pretty. I am learning not to let my mind run wild with things though. If he says he loves you, and only wants you, then let that be your source of comfort in knowing thats true. he picked YOU for a reason. if other girls like him ,rest in the fact of knowing YOUR his girlfriend and not them. I'm learning the same thing. It is very hard especially since IM already so insecure. I don't think anyone should trust anyone 100% it is best to keep up a little bit of guard if you have only been dating 8 months or so. maybe if this lasts over a year or to a year you can let your guard down easier. But he chose YOU girl. those other girls WISH they had him but you do. so take that into thought ok? it'll be good.
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