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Okay so I deleted my ex off my facebook account as I now feel ready to move on.
I go to college, and it seems increasingly where I am he also is, whether with his friends or on his own-and its a massive college.
He tried to speak with me but I just gave abrupt answers.
The worst thing? He watches me eat lunch. I'll be sitting in the canteen and he'll be up on the balcony on his own/with friends, leanign over and looking at me. All lunch for like an hour and I feel so uncomfortable. I feel all I do is try to hide from him-I can't study in the library because he's always there.
What should I do abut this? Any advice welcome. p.s I don't wish to get back with him as he's a serial cheat.

It's a good thing you're asking for help. It's seems as though he's still in love with you. I think he follows you because he either wants to confront you to try to fix the issue that made you break up or he wants to know why you broke up with him. I think what you should do (if you haven't already) is call a parent or close friend and ask them what you think ou should do. If their solution doesn't work, then confront one of your ex's friends and tell him to tell your ex to leave you alone or whatever it is he wants to know.If that doesn't work out either then you should probably tell someone high up at your college. If they can't eliminate the issue then call the police and tell them your being stalked. I hope this helps you with your problem. Sorry for making this a little long. If you have anymore questions, look up "saerroe"

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