Member Since: July 24, 2013
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Last Update: July 30, 2013
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Hi, 3 years ago I found out my wife was having an affair , maybe I pushed her away through working day and night ,then I met my wifes colegue who is much younger was in a bad way , I decorated her flat and tried to help her as much as I could I felt so sorry for her and became a close freind .Then I fell for her we became lovers and soul mates this is it I thought shes the one know 3 years later she wants to be just freinds after letting me spend all my time , money and most of all loving her. Before anyone judges me or her she came from an abusive family and she feels so much guilt it took the fun from our relationship know I love this lady who is 24 while I am 40 more than anything but her freinds have taken against me because of my age and started to turn her against me , have I really done wrong loving someone who had nothing and who made me feel good again, know shes starting to go out and her freinds wanted to set her up on a date , I am mortified because I really dont want to lose her at all , but she is becoming more distant and just lately says its making her ill the guilt and if it came out she would take an overdose ,I know people will judge me but i can't help loving this lady more than i have ever loved anyone i am tottally loved up , not eating or sleeping and i can't stand the thought of losing her , although she is distancing herself from me , i feel like im just there for her when she wants me because we argue all the time too . (link)
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Thankyou for your reply we both have been checked out and I cannot ever forgive my wife for her betrayal , it has left me with a lot of anger so on my part the love I have for this other woman is tottally TRUE . I want her in my life I have been provider and protector and dont want to lose her she says I smother her all the time and she feels tottally sick with guilt as she doesn't want to hurt my wife ! She loves me but because of her freinds comment about my age shes know having second thoughts , I think of her as a soulmate and dont want to lose her at all.
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