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Age: 25
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How do you know when you find a job that is the right fit for you? I originally wanted to be a counselor but because I didn't get into graduate school the first semester (I applied late and didn't get into the top 2 schools in the U.S.), I gave up and decided to go into teaching. Part of me thinks I went the easy route because I wanted a career instead of a "job."
I'm not happy with teaching. My first year I taught special education but I didn't like it, I decided to go into a general education setting. This job is harder but on a different aspect. I was told not to "jump ship" yet and to give it a chance before quitting.
Don't get me wrong, I love my students, but I don't love my job. I am not inspired to be there. I wake up dreading to go to work. I consistently hear about teachers or other people talking about how their job feels natural to them. What do I do? Do I give it time and WAIT until I fall in love with my job? Should I go back and pursue counseling (there's a "what if" on the back of my mind), what should I do? (link)
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Do whatever you love. At least give it a try. We only live once. you don't want you to be thinking in future that 'what if i would have quit this job' , 'what if , i have strength to go for my ambition rather then this stupid mindless job'. Yes it is hard to do such thing. But no harm in trying. If it didn't workout you can always come back to this again.
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I'm in my early 20s , a female and havnt had many full time jobs before.
I have just started new role, and I like it and the team seem nice.
My problem is that for some reason at work and in work environments I become very shy. I don't speak out and join in small talk. I put my guard up and somehow I just CAN'T join in!
At first I on purposely kept quiet because I didn't want to seem too pushy. But I'm worried if I carry on I might seem less shy and more aloof. What should I do? I have bad social anxiety.
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I am not an expert on social anxiety or any other psychological matter. At first it is perfectly normal to speak less as you are in a new environment and mostly observing people.
Try speaking wherever you feel confident about the particular topic. In the particular group have small talks with the individuals and slowly you will gain confidence to talk in group as well.
Don't think about it too much.
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Lately, we have been talking dirty a lot, a lot actually. Mostly sexual stuff. He told me the other day he will make me scream when we were out with our friends but when he told me that we both were alone together having ciggies.
Now, after introduced through my friends he and I've become really close in only a few months time and sharing and talking when we see each other at college, he always has to buy me lunch, insists to pay always, even though I want to pay for my own meal but wouldn't let me. He's such a decent boy. After the joking, talking, he's started to ask me questions like if you're wild, your nipple should be hard, I think you're quite shy in the bedroom, this kind of sex talk makes your knickers go wet, are they wet, I think I'm going to get stiff he said, do you talk dirty in the bedroom at the end of the class the other day, I told him you're always horny, he said, no you are. I can make a baby in you yeah, I asked him back what coz I didn't hear him properly he said the same and looked at me replied no just kidding. Most recent is while he told me he will make me scream.
I like him and he likes me too, I'm sure but we both have a partners at home. When we said goodnight the other day, he told me he loves it how we get on. Is this wrong to have a friend who does the sex chat and refers me that how he will make me scream, saying you're always horny, your nipple should get hard when if you're wild in the bedroom? Now, what is he trying to achieve? While I was away for a week, he said he missed me, I said you didn't, he said I didn't say that, you've said it, I said really you didn't miss me, he looked at me with that deep hint of shy look said, I always miss you( said my name), Always. So, what's all this? Has he started to have feelings for me or what? I think I have a feelings for him. Starting to. Thank you for the advice. (link)
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Ask him nicely that these kind of talks have started bothering you and you would like to limit them from your conversations.
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Could anyone explain about the meaning of feeling is mutual? I think he likes me well I like him and he knows that, I suppose. We're friends and known for almost a year. Joking, flirting and sharing stories we do when we meet and yes I feel an attraction between us and I think he feels the same too. Tells me he likes me several times but different occasions. Yesterday we're talking and after the hamburger that he bought for us, I feel sleepy I said, he said should we go for a nap together, I said yeah you wish, and he looked at me, said you and I have this relation, hard to describe but you like me and the feeling is mutual. He said twice. Instead of saying he likes me why would he say in a lengthy way? We are in a difficult place because of my boyfriend and he probably don't want to risk our friendship. Is this wrong, folks?
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There is nothing wrong with liking someone and that person feel the same about you. But being feeling for someone else while in a relationship with other person. Yes you are right to think that your friend doesn't wanna spoil your friendship with you. You should take one road and decide what you want. having best of the both world can put yourself in a bad situation.
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