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I can't believe this is happening, but it's definitely for real. After taking two different home pregnancy tests and getting the same result, I decided to skip school last Friday to go to the doctor to find out for sure. And I am most definitely pregnant.

I told my boyfriend over the weekend. He says he'll support whatever decision I make regarding the baby. I've thought about it and decided I don't want to get an abortion. I want to have this baby and find a family to adopt him or her.

I told my parents everything over the weekend as well, including my plans to carry the child to term and to find a family willing to adopt. They were upset, as you can imagine, but support my decision.

I've told a couple of other friends and they think I'm crazy to not have an abortion. I've been trying not to let them fill me with doubt, but I can't help but wonder. Am I making the right decision here? I want to believe I'm doing the right thing. All I know is that I hate the idea of killing this life inside me. After all, he/she didn't ask me to get pregnant. (link)
if ythink that y are able to take care of this baby that sok but if y wanna keep it butthen give it to a family then it s a no 0. yr 17 yo i think better to go and have an abortion .


Hello there, I'm a female American high school student, and like most Americans, college is financially stressful to even just think about. I have great grades, a great track record, great school participation, and pretty much everything that should set me up to be an attractive applicant for colleges-everything except money, that is. It's pretty annoying to have to think about, but it's the truth. Obviously, scholarships are a thing and I am going to aim for it, it seems like even the cheap schools are an arm and a leg.

But this is all stuff I'll have to deal with. Another thing I'm worried about is being able to fit in, being able to enjoy campus life. To be clear, me going to college would be a first on both sides of my family. I lived in cheap apartment my whole life where we were pretty much staying on the mercy of our landlord letting us pay rent late, grew up around drugs, whenever we had what we needed it was due to questionably legal bullshit artistry on behalf of my parents-that type of stuff.

Ideally, I'd get a full ride scholarship. If that happened, I'm just worried about being socially isolated and stuff, or just not being able to afford hanging out with other students. Currently with high school, because I don't fit the stereotype for poor kids (stoner, trouble maker, not smart, etc) it leaves me in a weird place where I'm bougie to the poor kids and ghetto to the rich ones. I wonder if that would repeat itself, or if it would be worse.

Not gonna lie on here, I've deeply considered sugar dating for my college years in order to have fun. I'm a lesbian, I've only ever heard about it happening to straight ladies and gay guys with old men, though there's enough people in the world. Even if it's a college girl and not an older woman.

Am I worried over nothing? What's it like being the poor kid on campus? (link)
girl knowleg matter belive me peopl wont look up for yr money or anything else then yr knowleg nd yr mindb confident b smart . dont b ashamed of being poor . y are smartpretty clever mature nd wise . study hard dont look back .y ll got to college y can work in summer and have a part time job then . it s easy buty are complicating things littl bt try to look forwoad to thegood side of the things closing yr eyes wont let y see arround thing but opning it wll mak y abl to see nd think . if y need any more advices y can talk


I am 29 years old. I have been in a relationship for over 10 years. Every time he leaves the house without me or even if he is at work I get anxiety. He has lied to me multiple times in the past and he has a code on his phone. If i go near it he freaks out. Clearly I know something is wrong but the reason I stay is because of loneliness and fear. We have a child together and I dont have close family or friends. I dont know what to do. I have communicated with him but nothing has changed. I know I should leave but I battle between being alone and feeling alone. (link)
sweetheart dont leave now thats my advice to y leave when yr sure y can move on without him plus who lies in a relationship one will keep lieingalways but y need some tips to get more confidence love yrself nd fear losing yrself then losing him . if that s possible y can contact me cz are man tipes .
i m rawand women from tunisia . i experienced many things like this beforebut now i m feeling super good thats why i decide to give free advices to everyone who needs it . cz i knowhow hard it is what yr goingthrough....


I was very tired last night, went to bed, but when I first woke up, I literally couldn't see a thing.

I then went back to sleep for a bit longer, and when I woke up, my vision was back to normal.

Why couldn't I see one thing? This has never happened before.

I'm hoping this was just some sort of weird dream, but have my doubts. (link)
go to the doctor to checkif yr eyes are ok that s the only answwer .


I’m gay and my grandma is very homophobic. I’ve been with my wife for five years so she’s had plenty of time to adjust. She’s always said random homophobic things but yesterday she took it too far. My wife was doing her makeup at my moms house and my grandma said “boys don’t wear makeup” I said “she’s not a boy she’s my wife” to which my grandma replied “women don’t have short hair” I so badly want to cut her out of my life and my mom is making excuses for her. I just will feel bad when she dies knowing I stopped talking to her. She sees nothing she did wrong and NEVER apologizes. Help! (link)
alright mmm .heyi m Rawand.
well what happened is sad iknow how it feels and y have right but why donty stop thinkingbout what everyone thinks . asisaid i know that y r getting hurt a lot by comments but ycant sht everyone on earth y can t do anything bout yrgrand ma . can yimagine that yr grandma died for exmp. and y didnttalk to her for5 y 10 idk bcz of such a thing u ll feel so sad belive me . the point is that s yr grand maa and from another sideyr partner . try to not listen to them tryto ignore them saying anything that bothers y but dont cut yr gndmaa out of yr life.nd i guess yr partner loves y nd should b understanding enough ndloving . if y need more tipes can help y ....




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