Member Since: February 18, 2005
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Last Update: February 18, 2005
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so what do you do if whenever you get in fights with your mom your step dad gets involved too adn every time he gets involved i tell him hes not my dad so stop talking to me and hten he says yeah im glad im not bc if i was your dad id beat your damn ass ... idk what to do or to say to him and its really pissing me off! please help! (link)
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Firat and foremost, take all the advice anyone gave you who is under the age of 30 and forget it. Telling him hes not your dad is just WRONG. How do I know, I am a step dad with two disrespectful kids who play the system to the hilt. Try giving him a little respect and be amazed at how it could be. Being disrespectful by saying what you said is surely not the answer. I dont want to be my step kids dad, but I love their mom and they live in my house under my roof. I am a part of their life whether they like it or not. As are you, your mom picked him for a reason. He must do something for her to be their to begin with., Try treating him how you want to be treated. That simple. Stop acting like he's trying to be your dad, because that isnt always the case. He's there because of your mother, NOT you. He's an adult and in a position that deserves respect, not ridicule, and a disrespectful step child. Just my opinion, I had a step mother who treated my half bro and sis different than she did the rest of us. Been there done that. Does it matter to you if your mother is happy or not??
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my dad just got called up to iraq again and me and him havent been very close lately. i know it's gonna be hard with out him around but i feel like i need to spend more time with him now so i can have some good times to remember with him. We just don't connect. Please Help me... (link)
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I have two brothers in the Air Force, and they have been to the war twice now. We are not the kind of huggy lovey brothers, but I made sure to let them know How I felt about them, and that we would pray for them. Thank god they made it back OK. I feel very proud that they serve our country and they have earned my respect a thousand times over. I am a father of four, just tell your dad you love him and your proud of him, It will be enough. A fathers love is unconditional and travels in many ways and forms. Just tell him and he wont forget.
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