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yeah so i like this kid, and we have been texting for like a month now, and he says stuff like your so cute i wanna see you, and then is like i wanna hookup, but then hes like i can get girls but im looking for the one... i kinda like him, but i dont know if i should waste my time. help :]
I had the same situation like this.. but the guy turned out to be a jerk. He was not only texting me cute things, but also other girls. and he never wanted to go out w/ me, just hook up. but he always wanted a girlfriend. So i don't know if your situation is like mine, it may be. but be careful because guys sometimes say cute things just because they want to get in your pants. not in all cases though.. so hey try it out. but keep your eyes and ears open and be sure to tell him that you want to be his only one ;]
when a boy finger's you for the first time..
will it hurt? also wouldnt it be awkward like what are you suppose to do when he's doing that and why does it seem like thats what boys always want to do, they try to go down your pants first?! also isnt it weird when a girl gets wet. i get wet easily, keep in mind ive never had sex or really dont anything physical except kiss guys. but this guy i like, when he rubs me or tries to get down my pants i get really wet and i hate it! i feel kind of embarassed and also it feels disgusting and he doesnt know im wet either because i always push his hand away, because im scared for him to finger me and since i shave down there its not always completely smooth so i always wonder what he is going to think, like gross! or what?
It's not awkward while its happening.. if you kiss and play around with him then you'll both be having a good time
And don't care about being too wet.. it doesn't matter to them. also being fully smoothe doesn't matter to them, they're not thinking about that. they just want to please you and themselves.
and it may hurt a little at first, not much at all.