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Member Since: October 16, 2005
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Last Update: October 16, 2005
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Okay, my friend (we'll call her mary) and I are about the same size, except i'm a bit leaner because i'm tall and stuff. But she ALWAYS wants to borrow my clothes. I didn't mind at first but now it's coming to every day -- she sees what i'm wearing and says "I'm borrowing that." Also, our other friend is like 2 sizes smaller than us but "mary" has even borrowed clothes from her. "Mary" has worn my petite friend's favorite hoodie more times than she has!
Its really starting to get on both of our nerves. During the summer I let her borrow one of my coolest skirts and she got a stain on it. Yeah, it's tiny. But I mean, come on. Also, she always says I can borrow any of her clothes whenever I want when she borrows mine. But the truth is, her fashion sense sucks. All she does is buy brand names and the clothes are usually the wrong size for her because shes in denial about being a size xlarge. So, she gives the clothes to our small friend who could practically wear them as nightshirts their so big on her. Anyway, so should I just keep kinda ignoring her requests to borrow my clothes or just let her borrow them once in awhile to keep her sated? Or just outright tell her that she stretches out my clothes? WHAT? (link)
I had a similar friend who always wanted to borrow my clothes and it got really old after awhile. One night she even took a shirt out of my closet while I wasn't looking and said it was hers, and I knew for a fact it was mine. I told my mom that she basically stole my shirt and every time after that night that she asked to borrow something I just told her my mom didn't want me lending out my clothes. Maybe you could do the same thing and just tell her your mom doesn't want you to let people borrow your clothes because they get ruined.




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