Member Since: March 26, 2009
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Last Update: March 26, 2009
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Ok so in the 5th grade (im in 9th now) I liked this guy so I told my best friend and she all of a sudden went and blabbed it to him. Surprisingly, when she told him, he said he liked me back. Things were pretty cool between us I guess. The rest of the year was kind of akward for us but we made it through. People thought we went out but we really never did. Sometimes he would call me and sometimes we would talk at school but then during summer break he calls me and asks me if I want to go out with him. I wasn't really surprised but I didn't know what to say. I wasn't even in the 6th gade yet!! i didn't think i was ready for a relationship so i said no. He sounded hurt and I know i broke his heart but I just didn't know how to fix things. I was 11 then and now I'm almost 15. We haven't talked since then. He goes to my church but whenever I see him i make an effort to avoid him. I think he's avoiding me too and i just odn't know what to do. Should I talk to him? Or not? Should i leave things the way they are with us or should i try to become friends with him? I really want to be friends and honestly I don't know if I want to be more than that. It's crossed my mind a few times but I'm just not sure. HELP?
Thanks so much :) (link)
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i think you should talk to him to see how hes feeling... but you cant always get your hopes up on these things. you have no idea whats going through his mind, whether hes moved on or not. i would just clear your head and ask how he feels.. and thats the only way you will ever know. tell him how you feel too, and why you said no in the first place.. that might help him understand a bit more.. as he might be avoiding you because hes confused and doesnt understand your feellings).
good luck, and i hope it works out :)
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