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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help?? (link)
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1# what your doing will hurt you far worse than being dirt poor.there are choises you make that can damanange you, who your are, and the respect you have for yourself. what you are doing can and will damange you, and change the woman you were supposed to become.and for what? so that you can a cell phone!? and did you ever stop to consider, reguardless of where this pervert lives,it would be no proublem for him to find you.he now knows what you look like.it could be only a matter of time to find you.im shure youve already given him all the information he needs just by chatting.i know one thing for sure! your boyfriend is not your firest consern!! go to your mother right now! and sit down with her and be honest! she will forgive you i promise!!! but she would never forgive herself if anything happend to you! and it fery well might! tell your mom so she can involve the police, you could help save another teenagers life! this is a DANGEROUS GAME YOUR PLAYING!!! please go to your mom now!
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