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Member Since: November 7, 2007
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Last Update: November 11, 2007
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I have known someone for 11 years, i considdered them my best friend, upon meeting meeting someone that i really wanted to get to know and start a relationship with i decided to tell my friend about this, my friend freaked out and threatened to kill themself, they say that they have known me for 11 years and i should spend more time with them they also want to know where i am at all times, who i am talking to, and they try and keep me isolated from my family and other friends, they have "coerced" me into doing sexual things with them and have lied and minipulated my emotions to get what they want, i know that this is abuse and i know that i need to stop it, i just dont know how without my best friend killing themself, I also feel as if i deserve what i am in now because of something i did when i was younger IE "abused someone" i really need some help understanding why i feel as if i deserve pain and abuse, and also how do i get my friend the professional help they need? (link)
thank you all for your help, i have taken steps to preventing them from hurting me more, i talked with a therapist about this and i om going to keep going to her. thank you all sooooooo much *hugs and smiles*




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