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Member Since: April 7, 2013
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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family... (link)
There is no reason for you to get pregnant at 15, you have your whole life ahead of you to get pregnant. Having a baby will prevent you from doing so many fun things, especially with your friends. If your friends want to go out to a party or something you won't be able to go out with them because you will have a baby. They are a huge responsibility and you are still a child, which means that you are not ready to take care of a child yourself.
I agree babies are so cute, but they will keep you up all night and you have to be with them constantly and they also cost a lot of money, probably more money than you are making at your job. Also getting pregnant by your friend and not someone that you are married to and in love with is not a good idea either because they may say that they will be there for you, but who knows if they really will be once the baby is born, they will want to have their own life and not have to worry about a baby, especially with someone who they are not in love with.
I do not know if you will listen to me or not, but I am just letting you know that this is not a good idea. You can't say you weren't warned. Just one more thing, why should you have to grow up so fast, enjoy being a teenager and have fun because once you have that baby that won't be an option anymore. Once you have a baby you cannot be selfish for the rest of your life because you have to take care of another human being. Don't waste your youth and just have fun with your friends, while you still can.




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