Member Since: February 27, 2013
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Last Update: February 28, 2013
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I have posted on here before about my boyfriend.
I love him quite a lot and I believe he loves me too. We have been together for a year and things have gone well. However, I feel I am not taken seriously and that I am sometimes taken advantage of. He currently lives with his friend and I stay over a lot. His lease is up soon and he wants to get a house with his friend. He always says things using "we" but he is only talking about him and his friend. We have been together through a lot (he was homeless and his ex wouldn't let him see his daughter) we have spoken about how we really have been through things and I feel like at this point we should really talk about a future but all he wants is to live with his friend. I never get to see him and spend time with just him because his friend is always with us. I want to tell him I want us to live together and not his friend but I worry he will say no or think I am moving too fast. How could I bring it up in casual conversation? I am so sick of his friend being around 24/7
Another issue is he is always out running errands and has his daughter over 3 days a week. He often would ask if I could watch her for a minute while he ran out with his friend or something. I didn't mind this because I love her and like helping him. However it has slowly evolved into he just assumes I am going to watch her and doesn't ask. He also leaves her with me for over an hour sometimes. He knows it makes me angry and it really frustrates me because I feel used. She is his daughter and it isn't fair that I spend more time with her than she he does. How do I confront him on it?? I am in desperate need. I love him but these things need to change. (link)
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you can sit down with him and say i need to talk to you in private and tell his friend to leave and dont let him think he can walk all over you went he cant and dont always babysit say no for a change
~Mariah Hoped that helped
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her 22 year old sister is in jail for one year for financial crimes. I have decided to allow her younger 17 year old sister to visit but I don't want her to be affected badly by the visit and I am not sure if she really should be in a prison environment, also she might sympathize with her sister and want to "join" her in some weird way or want to get involved in criminal activities as well. I am still wondering if this is a good idea at all. How can I prepare her and what should I tell her beforehand.
is it even a good idea to let her visit? (link)
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i get where youur coming from. but if she really wants to go take her but have a talk with her saying that where her sister is right now is not a good thing i hoped that helped
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I'm a 13 year old girl in grade 7. I was sexually abused for 4 years but got it sorted out now. My best friend knows about everything I'm gonna be righting about. I've tried killing myself about 3 times once before she came to my school and twice after by taking sleeping pills usually about 5-7. Well I wanna again I really don't wanna live. I'd just like to know what is the most you can take by at the point you'll die? I don't wanna tell my friend this cs she has enough problems of her own right now. I wanted to cut myself last night but I got to scared. Pls just tell me the ammount of pills that would kill you. And how long will you sleep if you take about 7 or 8 and how will you feel the next morning. I weigh 42 and my height is 155 cm. (link)
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Don't do it i understand that you want to but your to young you have your life ahead of yo dont you have to many friends and family who need you and that will miss you killing your self will not help please dont do it , its going to get better !!
~Mariah
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My mom always went out and drank. And she has always had a boyfriend problem. Like she would go out with everyone just for sex or money. That was then. & she started back up again. She has been choosing her boyfriends over me and my brother. It doesnt matter to him though because he will move out soon. But what about me? What do I do? I'm sick and tired being alone.. (link)
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Aww , I would try to talk to her and say how much it hurts u and that you feel alone all the time and that you don't want her to do that anymore or try telling your brother of other family how you feel talk to somebody hoped that helped
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I'm sick and tired of them both! my best friend is sexting my ex! she lies to my face about EVERYTHING! i wanna kill myself! i already hate my life and we have been fighting more this yr than ever! Idk what 2 do.. someone please help...
P.S. there is A LOT more drama but i didnt feel like putting it.. 2 upset..
so please help me know what 2 do! (link)
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don't kill your self number one and if they were really your friends they would have not done that i think u should not pay them no mind okay i know how much to know that your bffs are doing that i hoped i help
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