Member Since: January 25, 2014
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Last Update: January 26, 2014
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Hi I'm 10 years old and I have a crush and want to ask him out but in a way no one has can you help me? (link)
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Crushes are the best thing you can ever feel,especially when you're young.Tell your best friend about this guy,you'll see it is going to be a lot of fun actually.Tell him how you feel and ask him to go out!It will be great if he accepts but if not stay calm you're really young and you will have a million guys who would love to go out with you!It really fun actually,you will try things that you have never ever done before,you will do things that you never thought you'd do(this is the good way of crushes)and nobody can say you what you're doing is wrong!Follow your heart but take brain with you(it's a basic stap not only for now but in everything you'll do!
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My best guy friend is dating the girl that hates me. Me and him were hanging out at the park one day and he kissed me. It just happened. Somehow her little friend found out and started a rumour saying that I tried to make out with him and said I'd give him a BJ. NONE of that happened. It was a split second kiss. Now everyone at school hates me and no one will talk to me. Not even my friends. Everyone calls me a slut or an ugly whore. When I opened my locker the other day there was a note that said 'go die slut' I even told the principal and my mom called the school, but they can't do anything about it because they don't know who did it. I don't know what I can do to make people stop hating me... I didn't do anything wrong. (link)
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Stop caring so much,you're just a teen who was part of a missunderstanding.Try to talk to your best guy friend and I'm sure he will tell the truth(if he is really your best friend).If nothing goes well make people listen to you,collect all your classmates together and try to tell them the truth.Talk calm,not loudly and make them understand that you're still the girl who they liked and wanted as a friend.Another thing to do(last option)is to pull the hair of the girl who started the rumour and to oblige her to say the truth.I don't really know if it will go right but I think you have to try to find out.Hope I could help!!
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My boyfriend broke up with me last week. We were together for two years and he told me he just doesn't love me anymore.
I've been having random moments of crying out of no where. I never knew it really hurt this bad. I know it's only been a week, but I want this pain to go away and it feels like it will last forever.
So I've been trying to do what I give advice to other people after they get out of a relationship. I try to keep myself busy. I go to work, but even there I find myself getting upset. I hang out with friends every second I can just so I don't have to sit at home alone.
How long does this last? Like I really just want to leave town and start over somewhere else.
Where do I go from here?
I mean I can try to find new hobbies, but everything I've ever wanted to do costs money and my parents use mine all on bills since we live paycheck to paycheck. At this moment I can't really buy anything for myself. The most I do is read but I find myself feeling so heart sick.
I know it takes time. But how long does this feeling last? Can anyone just tell me how to get past this whole grieving thing and pick myself back up? (link)
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All that will leave when tou decides.Don't overthink of him,actually don't think at all.Meet new people,find funny thing to do(that don't reall cost).You can go to the cinema,to read interesting books and to do everything you have wanted to do when you was with yoyr boyfriend but that you didn't!Try to think and say yourself that you're way better than him!You didn't lose him,he lost you!Repet it every second when you thinks of him!something else would be to change your look,you know to be a really hot chic and all the boys will be like:'oau mamma,give me your number!'You will see that everything will come back at normally even better than it was!Hope i could help!:))
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i met a boy in my college function .he was senior to me .but my coparing is made with him luckly.he show liking for me on stage in front of whole audiance.i know he is flirty boy .he has girlfriend in past.i did not response him.he tried little to convince me but i did not say a word.now what i do.i am in 3 year and he is in 4year.i face him daily in college.tell me what i do. (link)
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Well,i think only you knows the answer.you have to do what your heart says but to get your mind with you.What do you really think about this boy?Do you feel somethinh for him?If not tell him clearly that you aren't interested in him!Hope I could help you little!Well see ya!!!
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My dad is SUCH a mean, inconsiderate jerk. I wish I'd written this last night because I'm dying for someone to give me advice right now. I also wish I could tell you
all about my family history, but I'll try to keep it short.
My granddad (mom's dad) is in the hospital right now and my dad's being a jerk about it. I grew up with my grandparents living about a block from my home. They were a part of our daily lives. They helped raise me and my sister and have done an awful lot for all of us that we should be grateful for, as has my mom's entire family basically.
After my grandmother died, my sister and I were grown and she had moved away, but I was still in town and helped my mom take care of my granddad daily. My dad hardly does anything. He gets mad at my mom because he says that she takes better care of my granddad than she does of him, which is a lie and hypocritical because he takes better care of his parents and niece than he does of us.
My granddad fell in his driveway on January 11 and hit his head so hard on the concrete that he was diagnosed with a cracked skull, a concussion, and bleeding around the brain. My mom and I took him to the doctor, who said he'd be fine as long as it didn't get any worse, but this past saturday night, he has headaches that indicated that it WAS getting worse. We took him to the emergency room and he was airlifted to a bigger hospital in a city about an hour away. It's not quite as bad as it sounds, but he is having surgery tomorrow to drain the blood that is
building up.
Saturday, my dad sat on his fat butt, ate, and watched tv while we were at the emergency room. When I came home just for a moment to get some things, I told him what was going on and he still just sat there. Later, when my mom and I came home to pack, preparing to stay in the city that my granddad's hospital is in until we knew what was going to be done about his condition, my dad STILL just sat there and didn't come with us. Saturday night, all day sunday, and most of monday went by and all we got from him were a few texts. He didn't visit and he didn't even call to talk to us in person. He couldn't even pretend to care. Monday, he finally visited, but only because he was in town anyway to help a friend of his with something.
We got home yesterday and my parents invited me out to dinner. We went out and my dad, who was the one who WANTED to go out, was in a bad mood. He talked rudely and hatefully to us, so I stopped trying to pretend that I wasn't mad at him like I'd been doing for the sake of getting through thd dinner. Then, he asked how late I stayed up the previous night. It's like he thinks he's so amazing that the only logical explanation for how I could ever be mad at him is if I was tired, on my period, or someone poisoned me against him.
Then tonight, after I'd encouraged my mom to tell my dad how she felt, they had a HUGE fight that, lucky for me, I got to be there for. It was horrible. My dad started screaming at her for things that were not all that relevant to what was happening. My dad unjustly accused her and her family of things he has no right to accuse them of. Basically he just had a big pity party because he knew he was wrong, but has always been too egotistical to admit it, or at least that's what I think.
He accused my mom and her family of things, probably in an attempt to make excuses for why he hasn't been there for my granddad, but everything accusation he made were things that his own family has done and done worse. My mom's family treats him like a blood relative. They're more generous to him than he could ever repay them for and my uncle even paid for him to go to the Master's with hi. My dad's family leaves me and my mom out all the time. They plan things around our schedule, not to make sure we CAN come, but to make sure we CAN'T. However, can't say anything to him about it because he'll get mad and defend them. He advised my engaged sister to hold her tongue about her problems with her future in laws because that's what he wants my mom to do for him and what he feels is right. He's alright with his relatives treating his wife and daughters like scum, just not with us saying anything about it. However, He's constantly saying bad things about my mom's family.
My dad's sense of right and wrong is very distorted. I'm sick of him being a hypocrite and I'm sick of him being mean and thoughtless to us and our extended family, especially my mom. Does anyone have any good advice? (link)
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Tell your father how you feel,try to explain him what all this means to you.You aren't anymore that little girl he knew(now you're grown up and you wants to see all your family happy)It's your right to tell your opinion beside you feels terrible and all that has hurt your feelings.Perhaps he will understand that but try to talk calm,not loudy,and be sure he understands the way you feels.hope I can help!
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