Member Since: July 2, 2007
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it all started yesterday. yesterday was a really bad day for me.. i mean we had to clean our entire house, and i couldnt even go out with my friend to see fireworks at some place, since we're not going anywhere for 4th of july, cause my mom has work, and my dad's busy as always. and i recently made a myspace, and i asked my friend (not her friend anymore i guess) if i could be on her top, and she said no, and then i asked what i should reply to her after she said that, and you guys at advicenators gave me advice and i took it and well.. this is what happened.
(by the way, i have been friends with this girl since like 4th grade, and she was more my friend during 5th and 6th grade but it changed during 7th. it was like she wasnt even interested in me sometimes... it got annoying but i didnt think that she didnt like me till she didnt invite me to her end of the year sleepover. i asked her if i was going and shes like "sorry its for close friends only" when some people she invited she didnt even know as long as i've known her! so it hurt.. and im real confused.)
me: hey (her name)! hows your summer? add me to your top? =]
her: umm...no your not going in my top
me: whatever, thats cool. by the way, why have you been acting kinda weird around me?
her: because, your rude. you piss me off alot and, you act as if the world loves you sometimes!!
now i dunno what to reply! cause what she said stuck in my head for the whole day. am i really rude? im usually nice to everyone, i dont even think i've ever been mean to her.. well i was mean to some girl because after a long time she just kept pissing me off, and i scribbled on her face in my yearbook. i didnt think people would find out but some of my friends saw it who didnt care, and this girl im talking about saw it and she didnt like it.. but it wasnt even about her and besides she doesnt know how that girl had been acting so i'd scribble on her face. i dont regret doing that, and it wasnt like i was gonna show them that i drew it, though they found out anyways... their problem.
and i dunno how i piss her off, and if i act like the world loves me.. doesnt that mean confidence? i dunno but maybe its cause im optimistic and stuff, but i really dont know cause nobody's ever said that to me before. :( what should i do? if im really rude or anything how can i fix it? and is this a friend i should really keep and how should i reply to that message without being "rude" or should i be rude?
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well to be honest i don't think that she is a friend you want. but i know how it feels. it's like you want to keep her as a friend because you have known her for so long and you don't want things to change. but at the same time if she is stepping all over you, you shouldn't have to take that. if i were you i would respond with some thing like this:
hey i know things have been weird between us. i don't know what i did to make you mad. but don't you remember how things use to be between us? i mean think of all the fun we had. and are you really ready to give all of that up? because i don't want to but if happiness for you and me means we can't be friends then i will do it even if it hurts. i'm sorry for what ever i did. the balls in your court...
then i would send it. but do what ever you want to but always remember: things do not change, we change.
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Ok well I have a lot of cds and i used to have a lot of of really slim Cd cases to keep them in but I ran out.
I don't have any money to buy any mroe and even if I did they're so expensive now.
Like before they sold packs as long as a mini tv (which is A LOT) for a dollar.
now it's just like 4 slim cd cases or long up to half the size of my hand for a dollar.
And I always have to burn CDs for my relatives and I have no cases to put them in. What can i do?
I was thinking of wrapping it on paper but i don't know if it'll scratch the disk (link)
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well you could ask your relatives to supply the cases. and i don't think that the paper would scratch it because i get cds all the time in paper and so i think it would work.
love_hurts_57
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15/f + boyfriend 17/m -
okay well him and his parents (mom and dad) are going to ocean city the 15th-22nd and they invited me. they're paying for everything. the thing is my dad said it was okay, but mom didn't. i need sooo much help to convince her it's okay. i wrote her a letter stating we wouldn't be sleeping together/all the requirements! i need so much help please. i want to go so unbeliveably badly.
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well i know how that feels but you should trust your mom. you never know if something in her past that happened to her keeps you from going. tell her how you feel and then ask her why and if there is anything you can say to make her feel better about the situation. just remember your mom loves you. that's why she said no.
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hi im a 13 yr old girl.okay today my friend told me my ex still likes me and the reson i dumped him was cause i liked this other guy and the whole thing between me and him was akward we never talked and i prefured to be friends with him ..he felt the same.
when my friend told me he still liked me it got me thinking i think i still liked him even tho we broke up like this girl told my friend that he liked her and my heart just stopped ...is that jelosy. but aperantly the girl misunderstood the whole thing and you couldn't describe how relived i was.
but today i found out i still to like him but i don't really want to go out with him and then just not even talk to eachother ....so i want to get closer
should i tell him i still like him? im so confused :( i was thinking of telling him but im not sure please help
thanks xxx
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well you see if i was in your place i would first think about how close you two are as friends. if you two are really close then i would talk to him. because if you two know each other really well then theres nothing to worry about. you tell him and tell him you don't want to make things awkward but still you like him. but if you two aren't that close then tell him and you know things are ok from there. but to be honest with you and i'm sorry to say this but one in a million relationships from the age of thirteen to marraige time don't last. remember you are "fishing out of a lake" wait tell you get to the "ocean".
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