Member Since: September 24, 2008 Answers: 1 Last Update: September 25, 2008 Visitors: 518
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How do Christians deal with what they consider inappropriate sexual urges? I am a teenage girl and I have desires that I know are wrong to fulfill until I am married, and because I am Christian and believe the word of God.
For example:
Desires for a person that a Christian is not married to.
Desires for a person who is not Christian.
Desires for a person who is of the same gender.
I understand that I cannot make the sexual urges suddenly go away since they have to do with hormones and maturing, but how can I keep them under control as a Christian? I love God and I do not want to disrespect Him or my body by giving into sexual desires in this inappropriate time.
I want to be the best Christian I can be and I know that means controlling myself when it comes to sexual activity. Are there ways to limit these desires to very infrequent times or are they something I cannot lessen no matter what?
I am also considering speaking to my pastor about this problem but I would like to know if that is appropriate to do in the first place.
Any advice is appreciated! (link)
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well as i see it, God gave you these feelings of love for a reason. he also said that the workld was ours to use for what ever we wanted. did he not tell us to reproduce? there is nothing to say that if you love the person that you should hide it forever. love is something you cant control. im sorry but He loves us all equally and if you repent then your saved. simple as that. dont feed him crap like "you must control it or u burn in hell" silly person lol. you wont burn in hell as long as you say "Lord im sorry for all my sins"
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