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Member Since: November 8, 2004
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theres this girl that i am madly in love with..she used to like me a lot and we have done things together, but after homecoming she didnt like me anymore and now she likes a sophomore and hes a pothead and everything and i just hate him..i want to know how i can get her back..i love her and i need her and i just want her back so bad..so yea..how do i get her back (link)
dude. this chick and you. its not going to happen. she broke up with you for a reason and you clinging to her like this is just going to make you look like a jackass. if you wanna go out with class, find someone else. dont give this "pothead" (and i resent the term) pleasure by letting their relationship get you down.


How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?
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dude, dont give up. it sounds like these chicks you're talking to are to damaged at this point to have a normal relationship, so you should give up on that and find some real women. You should start hanging out at places where you might meet people with similar intrests as yourself. Stop heading to clubs or bars or whatever, and just do what you enjoy. The ladies will come to you, and they will be interesting, fun women who know how to have a healthy relationship. And don't give up after a week. I mean, I know 25 without a single long term relationship might seem like a long time, but some people spend years before finding someone they truly love, or just rush into a relationship with someone they don't. Just be patient and you will find someone. trust me. i read a lot of Dear Abby.


By the way, have you tried experimenting with the fairer sex? Maybe you havnt been exploring all your options.




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