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So for a few weeks now I've been talking to this guy over Facebook and we seemed to get along quite well. Just last weekend we met each other for the first time (he lives an hour away) and we cuddled A LOT. At first he just had his arm around me and i laid my head against him, then he grabbed my wrist and put my arm around his stomach, later on, we were holding hands and at first i didnt realize it but the back of my hand was over his crotch, which is weird to me, i've never cuddled/ kissed/ dated anyone. The next day we were im'ing each other, he told me he had wanted to kiss me. Later in the conversation i told him i had been wet and then he told me he had gotten an erection ( i did notice his hand covering his crotch a few times). I can't stop thinking about him (which is normal for me when i have a crush) but i also fantasize about having sex with him. And i don't know what to do. i really like him for his personality too, so my attraction to him isnt just sexual. He's done it before, i haven't, though he isn't the stereotypical guy who just wants sex, he is very intelligent. Im 15, he's 17. What do I do? I don't wanna hear about us being too young either, i already know that, but teens do it anyway. (link)
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It's totally normal to fantasize, I promise. Because you have never kissed or done anything before, it is understandable. However, if you really like this guy and someday want to have a relationship with him, I would wait for sex. I'm 17 now, and was in the same position, and I'm so happy I waited because the guy turned out to not be what I thought he was. Take more time to get to know him, going slow is never a bad thing. Then, when the time comes and you're committed to each other, those fantasies can become reality. Hope I helped!
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So I have been seeing this guy who Is three years older than me so my parents don't know about our relationship and he mentioned oral sex a few times. I trust and love him and I'm ready but he said fingering will be nice. Hedoesnt pressure me though. My parents are very protective and they will take me to the gynecologist if they feel the urge to. So my question is, is fingering me going to break my hymen? And I use tamponsos there a way for me to see if it's already broken? (link)
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Fingering could "break" your hymen, that happened for me. But it wasn't traumatic, he didn't know he did it, and all that happened was some blood in the toilet the next time I went to the bathroom. It wasn't even as heavy as the lightest period you could imagine. It also doesn't hurt as badly as people say it does, because the hymen is weakened or sometimes gone in its entirety due to tampon using or sports. If you're ready for this step and confident that you want it to happen, there is nothing to worry about. It's not a sign of virginity or not, every doctor will tell you that now.
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