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Last Update: February 21, 2016
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So I have this friend let's call her Rebecca whom I was always there for, but she's the type of person to abandon all her friends for her boyfriend. Everytime she and her bf would break up she would call me crying and I would listen. Anyways I have another friend let's call her Carrie, Rebecca and Carroe were really close friends but since Rebecca is glued to her boyfriends hip she told me she hates "Carrie" because she feels like Carrie flirts with her boyfriend. (In Carries defense she's very friendly and anything she does could pass off as flirting) Long story short Carrie and Rebecca stopped talking and Rebecca went on vacation to Colombia. Rebecca recently came back from Colombia now she ignores my texts and Carrie told me Rebecca got her a gift from Colombia. Should I be upset about this? I was always the one there for Rebecca and then she does this. Also btw she never texts me anymore in the first place unless she's on bad terms with her boyfriend when they're on good terms he's the only person she sees. I'm not upset at the fact that she didn't get me a gift, cause I wasn't expecting one but I upset at the fact that she specifically stopped talking to Carrie before her trip, talked behind carries back to everyone, made me make sure Carrie stayed away from her bf, then all of a sudden comes back from her trip with souvenirs for Carrie? That's what upset me the most she was being fake to Carrie but brought her a souvenir and me being always there for her she didn't even bother. What should I do about this situation? I'm always the friend who is always forgotten when it comes to gift giving. Btw we are all 17 & 18 year old high school senior girls (link)
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I understand why you are upset. I would be upset too if I were in your position. Honestly, the best thing you can do is talk to "Rebecca." Explain to her that your feelings are hurt, not because of the souvenir, but because you feel like you've lost your best friend. When you have a boyfriend you will understand why is has gone "ghost." Boyfriends are very time consuming, and when you really like someone or love someone you tend to want to put all your time and energy into them, its a sad thing that happens but that's how it works, most of the time anyway. I would just talk to her, nicely. And explain how you feel. Maybe try to set up a girls night.
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