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Hi I'm June and I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 soon to be 18. You've probably heard this sort of situation tons of times but my boyfriend wants to have sex and we've had this conversation multiple times of how I feel I'm not ready and I have told him my decision was no and the other night the subject came up again and I told him I wasn't ready but he wasn't really accepting my answer and he was like if you trust me you'll let me do it. I trust him a lot and I really like him and he knows that but I myself just don't feel ready and he kept pushing for me to change my mind and I gave in and said I'd have sex with him and now I'm gonna see him sometime this week and he wants to do it, idk what to do I'm scared and I'm not ready to have sex but he doesn't want no for an answer what should I do. I love him a lot but I'm just not ready, any advice is helpful. (link)
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He should respect you enough to understand what you want from the relationship. Sex doesn't always have to make the relationship and don't ever feel pressured into it because you like him that much. You clearly state that you are not ready and chances are you are 100 percent not, so explain this to him and know when to walk away if he doesn't respect your decisions. Always remember that boys aren't all that and you're only 16, theres plenty out there who will accept your conditions of the relationship and devote all respect to you.
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My ex and I broke up unexpectedly a few months ago (he dumped me). During our relationship, I had spent a lot of time with his family in a different state, visiting with him whenever he went home. I became very close with his family, especially his mom. When he dumped me, I realized, devastatingly, that I would never see his family again, and that I never got to say goodbye.
On a scale of 1 to psychopath, how crazy would it be to write his mom a short, sweet note just thanking her for welcoming me into their home, that I will treasure the memories, and that her family has a special place in my heart? Please consider from both her perspective and that of my ex, who would probably hear about it. (link)
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There is absolutely nothing crazy about wanting to re-connect with people that once met a whole lot to you. Regardless of her being your Ex's mum, she is someone you bonded with separably despite him being the reason for it all. I believe its something very sweet and you should do it if you wish to. I'm sure she'll be very pleased to here from you.
All the best.
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