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Age: 18
Member Since: June 24, 2007
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Last Update: July 9, 2007
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you know those sayings "bro's before hoes" ? like friends before boyfriends? what are some phrases like that?(for girls)sry if this was confusing. thanks

Sisters before Misters?

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when i masturbate i can't ever get to an orgasm. I try really hard and sometimes i'll do if for 5 min. straight and more. how do i get an orgasm off of it? is that normal not to get an orgasm?

Well, 5 minutes isn't very long at all! you could try doing it for longer...

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Is there any good way to deal with feelings of embarassment? When something embarassing happens to me, everytime I think about it even weeks after it happens it just kills me. I feel terrible about myself.

You just have to learn to laugh at yourself!
If you really think about it, it's never as big of a deal as it seems.
It's in the past, you can't change it, move on and learn from it!

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Okay so I need help. And FAST! I've got a male betta who I've had for a short amount of time now and today he decided to show me that he indeed does know how to jump. I was cleaning his water like I ALWAYS have and I put meds in it because I expect him to be sick and I left him in a little bowl for awhile to let the medicine dilute in his water. LIKE I ALWAYS HAVE. Well, this time I come back a few hours later and he is out of the bowl and in the tub no longer moving. He moved when I touched him so he wasn't completely dead, just totally black on the side he was laying on. So I tossed him quickly into his new bowl and at first it wasnt too bad. he floated vertically with his mouth above the water and he swam just fine when I chased him with my finger. Now however is another story. He acts as though he is paralyzed and only his little fins would move. I can twirl him around in the water and he wont move. I still think he's breathing and he moves after awhile of bothering him. But not very far. He just twitches a little. Well I'm very worried about him and I don't want him to die. Is there anything I can do, or is all hope lost? PLEASE HELP ME!

Aww poor guy, I don't think there is much you can do for him now. Since he can't swim well and they breathe air from the surface, put him in shallow water, a few inches deep, so he can reach the surface easier.

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i have a kodak camera, one of the newer ones, its a nice one, and like whenever i take a picyure i turmn ouit pale, and im not pale. how do i fix this

Try using the different flash settings, or you could even turn the flash off and use your own lighting.

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hello.
i'm trying to lose weight and i work out alot. i try to everyday and then let myself rest on sundays. but i've been noticing i eat alot so basically my working out and eating cancle eachother out...which isn't bad but i've noticed i just kinda go into the kitchen eat a little snack..even if i'm not that hungry i still eat something. then later i do the same. and then when its like lunch or dinner time i eat like normal. and when i'm out with people and we get food i usually end up eating even if i'm not hungry or i end up finishing their food. and then after i eat i'm like you idiot why'd you do that. your not going to lose anything if you eat all the time. so what can i do to help myself stop eating when i'm not hungry? what can i do to help myself gain more selfcontrol?

thanks so much.

Well I don't know if there is a way to just magically gain more self control. You just have to keep reminding yourself of what your goals are! Try not to eat when you aren't hungry, and stop eating when you're full. You don't HAVE to finish everything on your plate.
You could try chewing sugarfree gum or even brushing your teeth to cut down on cravings!
Sometimes being thirsty can be mistaken for hunger, try drinking more water.
And it's ok to snack between meals, just go for something healthy, like fruits and vegetables!

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which is the best way to have sex? i am only asking because me and my bf are planing on doing it and we are so confused. and i was wondering if you could give directions as well. none of the sites i checked out don't really get to the point. and most wont let a 15 year old in. or you could give me some sites. i would really appreciate it. and my bf does too.

First of all, if you don't know how to have sex, you probably shouldn't be doing it...
15 is too young to have sex, wait until you are older. You don't want to do something you will regret later on down the road, what's the big rush?

Do you understand all the consequences of sex? You could get STD's or even become pregnant! You'll have to live with those for the rest of your life.
I say wait a few more years, trust me, it will be a lot better if you wait.
If you do decide to do it, make sure it's what YOU really want to do, and not something you're being pressured into, and always use protection!!

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