Hey everyone! I'm young, but act mature for my age. I do my best to help everybody find happiness and always turn that frown upside down (: You can ask me anything .. I have been through more in the last few years than some people who are in their fourty's have been through there whole life. I alway's have an answer to a problem. You don't need to tell me who you are but I do ask for you to be truthful. I'm not insisting we ever hang out, just that if i'm going to help you (which i'm more than willing to do) you need to be honest. Leave me some stuff, i'll get back you (:
Website: life is a long journey
E-mail: marissababyx92@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
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Member Since: May 16, 2008
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Last Update: May 16, 2008
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So I found out that my boyfriend of 2 months lied to me about smokeing weed. he swore he would never lie again but obviously i dont belive him considering he lied the first time. Now that hes lied, I always think that hes lieing to me about EVERYTHING..I dont want to break up with him but I dont want to be with him if I think hes lieing..I know this is confusing but how can I just find out the truth when I think hes lieing? Should I just trust him until I catch him in the act? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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This happen's to girls alll of the time. Guys lie about silly things but what it all comes down to is the fact that he cares about you and he wants you. Why else would he lie about smoking pot? I've done it, it is nothing great. The most you can do is try and talk him out of it without wining (guys can't stand it). Give him another chance, and most importantly, sit him down for a talk and just straigt up tell him how you fell .. say something like this .. "So we've been going out for 2 month's and I really like you but it bothers me soo much that you lied to me about something so dumb especially when you swore to never lie to me. Now whenever you tell me something, no matter how much I want to belive you, i'm just not sure on what to belive. I don't want to break up with you but being in a relationship we need to be able to trust eachother and not lie." Just say something like that to see how he reacts. I meen, the worst that will happen is he will keep smoking weed but depending on how much he cares about you and being with you ... that is what will determine you two still dating.
I really hope that I helped. If you have anymore problems just message me, i've been through a lot & i'll do my best to help
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